Just a Couple of Pickles

Back to LA, the Midwest...& Reality!

2010-08-16T16:19:00.001-05:00

We arrived back to crazy, busy LA at 9:15a. Back to reality and LA is not where you want to return after Bora Bora! Andrew repeatedly said, “this is the total opposite of where we came from!” Most couples didn’t stay over in LA on the way back, we all pretty much did the same…that is spend a few days in LA before the honeymoon. One couple from Australia actually traveled the world for their honeymoon and Bora Bora was their last stop! However, I wasn’t sure how tired we’d be or how long it’d take for us to go through customs on our way back. I booked us for Southwest (cheaper and free bags!), but one thing we did experience…is not seating together or almost not getting on our flight! Things you learn as you travel! You fly Southwest, better pay the extra for early bird check-in to reserve your seat (FYI, doesn’t mean you are assigned seats!).

Once we arrived, we found out the hotel I booked doesn’t include airport shuttle! Seriously, the internet showed it did! But, we didn’t care anyhow…it was a pretty crappy Days Inn and pretty far away (false ad!). So we went out on a limb, cancelled the reservation, and tried to book a flight home that very same day. After walking what felt like a mile to Southwest’s gate…we find out it will cost an extra $550 just to be put on standby!!! Andrew says, “what’s the nicest hotel in town?” Meaning...we might as well stay at a 5-star hotel! Southwest gave us a “distressed passenger” voucher to book a hotel close-by and we were SO GLAD we cancelled Days Inn. For $10 more we ended up staying at a nice Holiday Inn and snuggled up comfortably into a long nap! Plus, they had 24hr free airport shuttle!! In addition, we were much closer to the airport and barely made the shuttle! We thought at 5a…there wouldn’t be many travelers out…NOT in LA!!

Andrew acting as a distressed passenger so we can get a room...quick...or we may just crash in the lobby ;-)

We made it back to the Midwest and ready to face reality ;-)

And....we're home after hiking a couple blocks from the train station!

Day 6: Spa "play land" at Deep Ocean Spa!

2010-08-09T20:40:00.000-05:00

Our last day was NOT going to be daunting! We wouldn’t let the thought of flying out at 5:50p ruin the enjoyment of our final hours at Bora Bora! So…we RELAXED!!! And, I mean TOTAL RELAXATION! We spent an hour by the pool after we checked out and spent nearly all day at the Thalasso Spa! And let me just say it was worth every penny in Francs!!!!

We bought a custom massage package (couldn’t splurge on the romance or honeymoon duo – nearly $1k USD!!). Instead we got 50 minutes of a massage…sounds like not much for $300 BUT…you have access to what we called the spa playland!! Plus, it was worth seeing Andrew put on his first pair of thongs (should have seen his expression – priceless!!). We plunged into everything they had…the chiller pool (walk through massage for the legs), the deep ocean water plunge (50 degrees F – brrrrr!!!!), the steam shower (before dipping in the deep ocean water plunge), the Jacuzzis, Tea Room, Ocean Room (laying down in plush lounges viewing what we discovered, the other side of our hotel), and much more! The deep ocean water is supposed to be the most mineral and fresh water (even though it’s salty). They use the deep ocean water for everything even drinking – yuck! This day was EXACTLY what we needed before we left on our 8-hr overnight flight! I’m so glad we saved the best for last! Typically, they say to get your massage or spa treatment once you arrive…we did the total opposite and highly recommend doing it at the end!

Our hotel had day rooms you can rent out for 45 min. Where they put your luggage and you shower, change, relax before leaving. Andrew and I left fulfilled with a renewed spirit. We arrived in awe and left in awe. While we were sad to leave, we left smiling and appreciating the opportunity God gave us to experience His magnificent creation! The beauty of Bora Bora is indescribable, emotional and while thinking of our next big trip…there’s no way we can top this…EVER! Therefore, we decided we have to save up for another trip back to Bora Bora…like our 5 or 10 year anniversary ;-) Now that we have pictures and are back to reality, Andrew says whenever we get stressed or caught up in a funk…just look at our pictures and reflect on our experience! Bora Bora is truly an extension to one’s quality of life!

NOTE: For more day 6 pictures...click here.

Checking out...

Where we spend the last day...in Spa "playland"!

1st Stop...the Tea Room...click here to view video

As we ventured around the spa complex...we found several treatments to test out ;-)

- To view the Chiller Walk...click here.

- To view the Swim Jacuzzi...click here.

Ready for our massage and the 1st time Andrew puts on thongs!! And our view...is the sea below with the fish swimming!

After the massage...we tested out the Deep Ocean Water Plunge...brrrrr!! Click here to see video! FYI...they recommended to sit in the Steam Shower beforehand!

The view from our private Jacuzzi!

To see our view live...click here!

The Ocean Room...talk about peaceful!!

A video of the Ocean room can be viewed here.

We discovered a whole new side to the island while hanging in the Ocean Room!

As we leave...we get shell necklaces

A Prince flew in this plane...about 15 people got off all dressed up!

Next to ours...makes it look super tiny ;-)

Day 5: A day of leaps into the lagoon...

2010-08-06T17:52:00.001-05:00

This morning, Andrew excitedly tells me at breakfast that we need to book the private sunset cruise. He says it was something he wanted us to do (after I mentioned it the night before and we spent an hour or so with concierge to find someone that wasn’t booked…she found 1 person available). Therefore, we contemplated and I wasn’t sure if Andrew was up for it anyhow, so I said we don’t have to do it…it’s just something I wanted us to do together…alone (I’m usually not the romantic one). After breakfast, I told him maybe we shouldn’t go there. I was afraid I’d be disappointed if the last guy was booked (which I sure he would be)! Sure enough, we find out…it’s too late. He needed to know last night so he could get the boat ready for the cruise, so he already booked a private day tour around the island. Needless to say, my morning was a little emotional…Andrew all excited about it, our last night in Bora Bora, and not having the romantic sunset cruise. So I walked away disappointed but, did pray in the midst of our decision…it felt like God was allowing the situation in a weird way. Everyone was booked so that’s when I prayed to say, “God, please take control. I’m not sure what is going on, but this is in your hands.” I wasn’t only disappointed, but in a way, relieved that God took care of the situation.

As I was recovering from a tiny emotional morning, I laid out on the deck while Andrew took forever to rent out snorkel gear. Had my quiet conversation with the Father and felt VERY thankful to even have the opportunity to be where I am…on a deck off the villa in the middle of Bora Bora! Andrew returned and I mentioned that there’s a reason we couldn’t get the cruise…at the time it was overcast skies and I thought, there may not even be a sunset tonight. Nevertheless, the two of us (as usual) make the most of every minute! We had almost an entire 2 days left and just wanted to do absolutely nothing but enjoy the beauty, each other, and our time at our villa. We giggled like kids, took many pictures leaping off our deck, Andrew doing a MAJOR belly flopper while the camera was on timer to shoot us together under our villa (via the glass floor in our living room, kayaking, hanging at the pool, and seeing Andrew read (a book without pictures)!!

Later in the evening, we had a nice dinner one last time at the Sands Restaurant (somewhat on the beach) and decided what the heck, we’re ordering drinks tonight! Cokes are at least $4-5 and cocktails at least $20…who cares, right?! Plus, we stayed under our budget and were celebrating the good times we had without splurging! By the way, I got my answers…we saved about $300 of disappointment…there was not a clear sunset that night!

Earlier in the day, Andrew mentioned something about jumping into the ocean bare-booty and all (aka skinny dipping)! I thought he was joking…well he was in a way. Needless to say, I said after dinner, “oh by the way, we have to skinny dip in Bora Bora!” And, so we did! We didn’t care if anyone saw. Plus, it was dark (but not so much by our villas with all the lights under them). Again, like kids…we walked out with our robes and stood on the deck anticipating the exhilarating jump! Andrew laughed and said, “we’re seriously doing this?!” Of course…we’re on our honeymoon and it’s our last night!!! We counted 1..2..3..threw off our robes, and leaped out on adrenaline rush (without testing the waters)! The lagoon arena was filled with our laughter and we yelled out, “this is so much fun!” Oh how fun it is to be a rebel sometimes ;-)

As we got out…we had to wait to see if people were walking on the docks because the ladder is pretty much lit up, plus you can clearly see our balcony from the other side. We quickly grabbed our robes and giggled back inside and jumped into our warm bubble bath with a glass of wine to end the night…viewing the waters and the mountain! We never had such a peaceful sleep!

Here is a preview of our many (many leaps)! For more pictures of day 5...click here.

Our 1st leap...not bad on the timer!

Probably my best toe-touch since HS cheerleading ;-)

This is where I waited for Andrew to join me...but he did a major belly-flopper and didn't make it under 10sec!

The continuous shutter capture leaps in action!!! So cool!

Our last date night...and recognize the clothes? From our wedding night!!

Day 4: A day of relaxing!

2010-08-05T16:04:00.001-05:00

In the morning we went to town (aka downtown Vaitaipe). Along the way, we had a humorous bus driver. And, we learn something new about Bora Bora each day…population of 8,000 with 5 cops. In other words…VERY low crime rates. In fact, the tour guide said he doesn’t need a gun…just use coconuts! I felt more threatened by the wild dogs (after I heard about the attack on one of the tourists)! In town, we checked out more Tahitian pearls…beautiful but expensive!! I just wanted a simple pearl on a short chain and that was just $600!! Yikes!! I’d rather take a sunset cruise (something we discovered and wanted to do but it was booked!). We only had 1.5 hours between transfers or otherwise, we could stay a few hours. Although, the town was quite small, I felt kind of rushed.

Andrew said he is learning more about me in after our nearly 2 years of marriage! I’m more into spending the $$ on experience, adventures…things that create memories and he’s more into spending quality time learning about top of the line jewelry for me. Kind of what happens when we shop…I look at shoes and he looks at jewelry…for his wife. So I do get a little impatient or short attention span when it comes to standing around talking about jewelry.

The rest of the day was spent relaxing and playing with the sting rays right on the beach of our resort. We tried out the kayak, the infinity pool, had some lunch, and I get my knee suckered by one of the sting rays! That was a little scary, so I left the rest of the sting ray feeding to Andrew ;-)

As our honeymoon shortens, I get a little more nervous or anxious wondering if we got everything in. We have learned a lot on this trip to tell others. The reviews will come later, but I keep telling Andrew that this has been the best trip by far in life no matter if we get everything in or not. I don’t want to spend any more money, so we decided to spend our last couple days doing nothing! Maybe renting kayaks and snorkels again. We have planned to spend time at the spa with a massage on our last day so we can be relaxed and sleep well on the plane ride home (another overnight flight – yuck!). The plus side though, is that Andrew hasn’t once been on the computer/internet until today (we purchased a 1 hour to research prices on Tahitian pearls) and he says he’s getting some good sleep! I say it’s from not being on the computer at night ;-) He also claims he just added a few months to his life and I believe him. It’s so relaxing here, we don’t know what day of the week it is nor do we know what time it is most of the day. In addition, we go to bed early and get up early…so we’re getting some quality rest! Just what our bodies needed after a hair-pulling, stressful 2 months prior to this honeymoon!

NOTE: More day 4 pictures...click here.

At one of the high-end pearl shops, Tahia Collins, trying on the $40k necklace!!! And, no...I didn't even ask for it!!

We kind of got addicted to Sparkling water.

Andrew just wanted to try the raw oysters...he said it tasted like he ran his tongue on the bottom of the ocean floor!!

As I was about to take a bite into dessert...one of the dancers grabbed me to join them on stage - yikes!!

Andrew took a bathroom break during dinner and was amazed...there are no walls behind the mirrors!

The view we see nightly on the way back to our villa.

Andrew feeds the sting rays and one sucks my knee!!

Day 3: The best of both worlds!!

2010-08-03T13:10:00.003-05:00

0n this day we began with relaxation on our back patio (which is in the middle of the lagoon!). In the afternoon was our Scuba Dive excursion with Bathy’s Dive Center! When Andrew mentioned scuba diving back in LA, I was thinking this is the only thing I may not be adventurous about. I’m claustrophobic. There was NO way I was going for this one! However, we made a deal…Andrew said he’d sky-dive in Santa Barbara with me if I scuba dive with him. I’ve been wanting to sky-dive for quite some time :-) Once we researched the rates on sky-diving in Cali…it was a bit out of our price range especially while we were getting ready to splurge on our honeymoon. So we saved the dollars for our Bora Bora excursions.

This day, I couldn’t have been more excited! We wanted to do things in Bora Bora that are highly rated or even top things to do in the area. Scuba diving was the one thing that people talked highly of!! The helicopter ride was another one but it wasn’t open again until August due to maintenance problems.

There wasn’t a practice jump or pool training…just literally leap into the water at 6 meters (18ft deep)! We were totally ready although we were a bit anxious! Bathy’s Dive Center got great reviews on trip advisor along with Bora Diving Center. Bathy's could not have done a better job with beginner divers! We received specific instructions and it seemed so simple. Plus, our guide…was with each of us (there were 2 couples) every step of the way. It only took a couple minutes to get adjusted and we gradually edged to the bottom by rope and popped our ears a couple times (advised in the instructions).

Once we got to the bottom and our guide began leading the way…it was a BEAUTIFUL world down under!! The fish were literally swimming all around and she even showed us the marine life (including the dangerous rock fish!!). The fish were so close, Andrew kept trying to catch them! I was the last one down and the first thing Andrew did was grabbed and hugged me even though it was barely a hug with the tanks and vest strapped around us! We spent 30 minutes down under with no problems. However, at one point, I thought my oxygen was leaking via the emergency mouthpiece. The guide assured me I was okay and I was off wondering around again :) I did inhale a mouth-full of salt water at one point and Andrew lost his mouthpiece by accident but gained control again. Later we learned that was part of certification…so he’s a step ahead!

Scuba diving was an incredible experience. In fact, the best one by far in my life! It was a whole new world and we felt so privileged to have experienced the best of both worlds in Bora Bora!! In fact, Andrew thinks God takes His vacations here…he was serious!

NOTE: For more pictures of Bora Bora Day 3...click here!

Yup...that's me..waaay out there :-)

Please don't remind me how dorky I look in goggles!!

Day 2: I can't believe I'm living my dream honeymoon!!!

2010-08-02T10:59:00.004-05:00

Our first morning getting up in Bora Bora, is immaculate! Nothing in the world can describe or compare to the beauty of this place!! Andrew and I are repeating, “we don’t belong here!” We literally feel like celebrities. Today we learned St. Regis in Bora Bora is the most expensive hotel on the island (obviously, a place for the stars – including the sweet Carrie Underwood (Mrs. Fisher) and many others. By the way, a family friend let me know Carrie is on the island taking her honeymoon! Well, I was on my honeymoon as well and didn’t feel like spending time look for her. However, according to TripAdvisor, our hotel, Intercontinental Bora Bora Resort & Thalasso Spa, is ranked #2 best hotel. Once I found that out and read all the reviews plus view the pictures, I was determined to convince Andrew to stay here once I convinced him to choose Tahiti for our honeymoon :)

Highlights:
-     Shark/Sting ray feeding – a MUST when visiting Bora Bora! It was unreal and totally worth every minute/dollar! The sharks will swim right in front of you and the sting rays would just swim up on your belly…they just love on you!!!

-          Andrew rescues our snorkel (way down under) while swimming with the sharks. And the sting rays…just wouldn’t get off of him…he had the fish in his hand :)

-          While swimming with the Sharks…Mr. & Mrs. Mike Fisher, pull up close by in their private boat and they waved at us!! Seriously!! This time Andrew recognized the celeb and I had to do a double take!! They were just so close!!! As we were pulling away, we tried to tell all the other foreign couples and tour guide who she was…”huh” was the expression on their faces! Oh never mind!

-          Snorkeling & sight-seeing – Andrew snorkels off our bungalow and forgot he couldn’t breathe underwater like the fish and sting rays!

-          Hearing a loud “thud” – apparently Andrew didn’t know we closed our sliding door to the patio!

-          Meeting other couples from USA and hearing their stories – another couple saw John Krasinski (Jim from the Office) and Emily Blunt, one saw the writer of the movie Avatar! Another couple talked about other couples they ran into – one attacked by a wild dog and the other had trouble with their agency (trip wasn’t paid for!!). Oh we couldn’t imagine!!

-          Finding other couples using Costco Travel!!

-          The first 2 days, I’m trying so hard to roll my r’s in order to say “hello” in French (which is Lo arona)…Andrew had to make me stop!

-          Polynesian fire show – pretty cool!! The bummer – we traveled across the waters to get to our sister hotel to eat and found out their buffet is not on our meal plan. Settled for some bar food – a hamburger & Panini…not all that great.

- Leaning over to tell Andrew, “I can’t believe I’m on my dream honeymoon!” And he replies, “I can’t believe I’m on your dream honeymoon!”

NOTE: More Day 2 pictures...click here.

Yup...these are sharks and yes...we swam with them ;-)

My hero...rescuing our snorkel and barely making it back up for air!!

The rays were so loveable!

Lunch on a private island.

Happy Hour at Bubbles Bar listening to some Jack Johnson!

Bora Bora...

2010-07-31T11:16:00.004-05:00

Day 1: I think our plane crashed...

As soon as we arrived to Bora Bora…Andrew couldn’t stop laughing (his emotions became overwhelming). He nearly began crying and I asked how can the water be so blue?! Andrew asked, "how many flushes from the plane did it take?"

All the other couples around were completely in awe as well. There’s not much to say about Bora Bora and we just can’t stop taking pictures (by the way, there is not a bad picture)! Andrew even said (seriously), “I think our plane went down!” He really wondered if this is what heaven looks like. I can’t imagine what heaven looks like. This is what I’ve been waiting to see…God’s magnificent artwork!

NOTE: More pictures of Bora Bora Day 1...click here.

Our welcome call!

Our beautiful resort, InterContinental Bora Bora Resort & Thalasso Spa

You bet...the 1st thing we did was jump into the lagoon. Andrew under our villa (peeking through our glass table)

1st date night in Bora Bora!

Our pad at our resort...we felt like Celebrities!!!

Live Polynesian Dancing in Tahiti...

2010-07-31T10:32:00.000-05:00

First stop...Tahiti!!

2010-07-29T20:20:00.001-05:00

The overnight flight, was a little rough. We didn’t leave until 12:30a. Tahiti couldn’t get here fast enough. In fact, I struggled a little with my luggage, dropped my phone and didn’t realize it until I walked a few feet and saw it on the ground at LAX!!! Then, my luggage topples over (as mentioned in previous video), I’m tired, and Andrew’s laughing! Oh the irony! We proceed to check in and hardly anyone spoke English.

We finally got on our flight and noticed dinner and breakfast is served. When dinner rolled around, they asked what I wanted, “oh, I’ll take the breakfast” thinking that was an option. No…that was for the morning, I was supposed to choose from the options below “Dinner”. Then they asked what we wanted to drink…wine…it’s FREE!! Oh, I’ll take that! It comes in a bottle (again, I’m tired) and they gave us a glass, but…I had already opened the bottle and started drinking from it before the steward stopped me to say he has a glass for me! Andrew was in tears laughing hysterically and I’m thinking, I just need to get sedated, naturally (don’t do well on flights).

Even though we did NOT sleep and Andrew couldn’t breathe, we finally arrived in Tahiti at 6a!! A slight problem though…we couldn’t check in at Intercontinental Tahiti Resort until 2p. Well, we fell asleep and lounged by the pool for about 8 hours!! Andrew was totally relaxed! As the day progressed…we became more exhausted and took a LONG nap. In fact, I slipped going down the steps and Andrew slipped going up the steps! We laughed out of tiredness and in addition, during lunch, a little kid gets out of the walk-in pool to pee on the patio! Andrew says, “Most kids pee in the pool, but this one…”! Later that evening we attended our 1st Polynesian show at dinner (something I’ve always wanted to see live!). God’s creation was just absolutely beautiful! What we didn’t know…were the gems of Bora Bora!!!

Some highlights:

- Andrew is determined to crack a coconut in the 2 days there.

- There’s just something fascinating about the Polynesian men dancing (something I've always wanted to see live)!! The show was incredible!

- Shopping at downtown Papeete and at the Tahitian Pearl Market where I purchased a Tahitian Pearl ring.

- While sitting at our swim up bar having a conversation, Andrew babbles and couldn’t figure out how to interrupt me to say, “That lady behind you has NO top on!!” I turned around and said, “no, she does…it’s just hard to see her strings.” He told me I was looking at the wrong one and by that time I turned around, “whoa, so…what’s on the menu?”

- Andrew rescues a couple that flipped in a kayak…had to help them pull it in. The poor husband already had a twisted ankle and deep abrasions (scraps) on his back from surfing earlier!

- We find a hammock to nap in, and as I was getting out…I flipped out!!

- Picking out my Tahitian jewel!

-Finding Coca-Cola at the Market for $2!! It's at least $4-5 at the resorts!

- The beautiful sunset going down behind the Moorea mountain!!

NOTE: More pictures of Tahiti in the two days...click here.

It's 6a and we are soooo tired, but make up for the sleep at the resort...

COOOKE!! Only $2 here!

This was my favorite Polynesian guy...tattoos, buff, and a thong sarong ;-)

On our way...

2010-07-28T20:22:00.000-05:00

Our flight was scheduled to leave at around 11p Pacific time from LA. Needless to say, I was a little nervous, anxious, and even wondered how well we were going to sleep on the overnight flight for 8 hrs. While waiting, I just like to people watch, meditate, and not talk. Hubby however, often likes to interrupt my meditation ;-) Here we are at LAX...

Tahiti & Bora Bora

2010-07-28T10:38:00.000-05:00

This is my dream honeymoon…”dream”! Never did I foresee this becoming reality! It all happened because of the great savings plan…learned from mom :)

While growing up, my mom created savings accounts for all her kids. Each month, she’d put away a certain amount and when we got old enough to make money, she’d teach us the same. Once I got to grad school, I decided to try a new method, put as much away as possible rather than the minimum. When I hit the jackpot and got a ‘real’ job, I put away half of my paycheck since I knew it was possible to live on bare minimum (learned that while in grad school). I already had savings bonds and CDs, therefore, I thought it was time to begin a wedding savings account. After all, I was getting old enough to consider the possibility of marriage in the future. Funny thing is…I was saving for my dream honeymoon as well (didn’t know that was the groom’s duty).

As newly-weds in Memphis, we joined a Dave Ramsey class at church. We were already putting half of my paycheck away to save up for our dream honeymoon and eventually a car. But, we felt like we could save more…and we did! Thanks to Dave Ramsey (and my mom), this honeymoon was possible after 1.5 years of saving (plus a little of my childhood savings)!!! We shopped around and found with our Costco membership, a FANTASTIC deal to Tahiti & Bora Bora! I frequently watched the travel channel when I was younger (on my parents’ cable) and knew exactly where I wanted to go :) We highly recommend saving (even if it takes several years), to book a trip to Tahiti & Bora Bora! While pictures do not do its justice, it’s a MUST on the list of places to visit before you die!!

As most people know, we were unable to take a ‘typical’ honeymoon after our wedding due to Andrew’s residency. A mini-moon in Nashville was just right! There were no plans, activities scheduled, and so forth. Just complete relaxation, time with each other, and walk around downtown. We stayed 2 nights at a 5-star hotel and I couldn’t have asked for better! I knew we could take the next couple years to save for something like Tahiti…I didn’t expect it to be exactly what I dreamed of though. We originally thought of Hawaii or St. Lucia.

Andrew did an AWESOME job surprising me with Tahiti & Bora Bora! He has been counting down the days and I’ve never seen him so excited about a trip!! NOTE: this is our very 1^st vacation together (not weekend trips, or visiting family)…just us! So yes, we were MORE than ready for this unique, once-in-a-lifetime moment (especially after all the moving stress!)…

Day 4/5: Malibu, Santa Barbara, Hollywood Blvd

2010-07-18T15:05:00.012-05:00

Day 4: Malibu Beach & Santa Barbara

Having a convertible rental made the LA trip much more fun and flexible. We cruised the Pacific Coast Hwy (PCH) which is one of the most beautiful scenic routes in America. The other one is cruising up to San Francisco. In Malibu, we stopped for lunch to have an Ahi Tuna Burger at the Malibu Seafood restaurant. Delicious! We traveled by Pepperdine University and Malibu HS and just wondered what the tuition would be. We stopped at one point on the way up to Santa Barbara for scenic pictures…ah the beauty!

Once we arrived to Santa Barbara, I was a little disappointed we couldn’t reach the valley of Santa Barbara for wine country (another 45 min North). Our primary intention, believe it or not, was to sky dive! We found out before leaving that it would cost more than what we wanted to spend since we were saving our $$ for Bora Bora excursions. However, we still enjoyed a couple tastings at Carr Winery and Oreana, had a relaxing time, and brought a bottle back for Bora Bora (since we just know things will be more expensive at the resorts). Later that evening we met up with Andrew’s friend from the residency program and had a wonderful time with him and his wife at an AWESOME Japanese restaurant, Gyu-Kaku!

Thai and his beautiful wife!

Day 5: Hollywood Blvd & Rodeo Drive

Our last day, just did the typical tourist thing before flying out to Tahiti…Hollywood Blvd and Rodeo Drive. I also finally made my 1st Hollywood purchase at Kitson…Andrew picked out an AWESOME, KY blue purse for me :) When we came out...we found a $50 parking ticket!! I immediately grabbed it before hubby could grumble and said, "It's okay...just 2 more days until Bora Bora and by the way, we don't live here!" That statement worked the entire time in LA once I sensed hubby getting stressed ;-) While on Hollywood Blvd, we just simply walked around and enjoyed a refreshing smoothie. A red carpet movie premiere was about to take place for Inception with Leonardo Dicaprio. We didn’t stick around for it but it was cool to watch them prepare and all the people sitting around to wait for a few hours.

Rodeo Drive was quiet but Andrew spotted a $2 mil car!!! We also went into Ralph Lauren where Andrew found a watch he really liked (being the avid watch collector along with his sports memorabilia – expensive collector I know!!!). The watch was a whopping $15k!!! And, NO we did not purchase this thing!!

At the end of the night, we went back to Urth Caffe one last time and said our goodbyes to Sherree. She was an incredible hostess and was one vibrant, spunky gal :) Staying with her was a great experience and we thoroughly enjoyed her organic and fresh breakfast and desserts! It was truly like staying with a friend. She knew the ins and outs of LA. We were even sad to leave her! If we’re back in Beverly Hills…we’ll definitely be back for a visit with Sheree :-)

Sherree's scrumptious french toast!!!!

Our daily breakfast room at Sherree's

Her cozy living room

Sherree...so spunky and beautiful...we loved her!! Oh, and you may recognize her from a few commercials ;-)

Day 3: Venice Beach

2010-07-13T02:02:00.008-05:00

Day 3
Obviously, lots of weirdness, but definitely fun and worth the experience!!

Andrew's surprise...London West Hollywood (Gordon Ramsay's restaurant). Totally worth the experience and dollars spent! This was our night to splurge (which we planned for one night in LA and one night in Tahiti).

So FRESH!!!! Gordon Ramsay picks out his own ingredients at the markets!!

And, they surprised us!!!

Day 2: Beverly Hills!!

2010-07-12T02:18:00.008-05:00

Day 2

We finally made it to our hostess, Sherree's house and were SO RELIEVED!! We booked her through Airbnb (highly recommend for traveling on a budget). It was much more pleasant and homey. Her home was beautiful! It was so exciting to meet and stay with a local. After we arrived and got settled in, we took off to Griffith Park, an incredible place to hike and sight-see the hills, city, and Hollywood sign! Since we're only here for a short period, we came to be a bit spontaneous. It's more fun that way and less stressful since you're not on a time limit.

Highlights:

- I spotted Kendra (from The Girls Next Door) at a local cafe (which was so good we wanted to eat there daily!). She was right behind me and I gave Andrew the "look" and said, "Omg, there's Kendra...behind me, the blonde!" Then he says, "Who? I can't read lips so talk louder!" I was actually trying to be cool or discreet, but it was kind of hard when you're sitting so close together with other guests! He decided to take a picture and got a shot with the brunette that was with her...sigh, oh hubby!

- Eating an "oh so fresh" brunch at Urth Caffe in Beverly Hills!!!

- Hiking the beautiful trails!

-Andrew spots Fabio and said, "I can't believe it's not butter!"

- Shopping and eating where the celebs go.

- Trying on clothes that are way too much to purchase ;-)

- Finding most of Ali's ( from the Bachelorette) wardrobe.

-Dinner at The Yard at Santa Monica and having a conversation with an actor (from "I'm Alive" on Animal Planet). Again, FANTASTIC food (ordered the crab Mac-n-Cheese).

- Finding out that only in LA can you get by with extreme fashion! Andrew says the winter boots trend in the summer, is CRAZY ridiculous! I'm referring to bras, bathing suits, pea coats, to "putting on whatever you find that's clean in your closet!"

- People watching and star-gazing. It's been eventful, fun, and entertaining!!

Waiting for luggage, hmm...NOT too happy!

But we're happy hours later to start the day and weekend off right!!

Sherree's FANTASTIC pad!

Food at Urth Caffe, incredibly fresh and delicious!! All organic!

Note: picture Andrew took when trying to figure out who I was talking about! You can see Kendra right behind the pole on the left...just her blonde hair ;-)

Beautiful Griffith Park

Amazing hiking trails...

Thought this was smog...but learned it's actually the marine layer.

Fabio!!

At the top of the Observatory!

Santa Monica Pier...and became a bit chilly by night.

Day 1: The Devil will NOT win!

2010-07-12T01:53:00.004-05:00

One of my favorite romantic comedy movies, “Just Married” with Ashton Kutcher and Brittney Murphy, depicted of what I pictured my honeymoon being like. I loved the movie so much I probably watched it at least 5 times and even bought the DVD! I think I liked it so much, because that’s pretty much the story of my life…and now my life with my husband. On every trip, we have what we call “Dill moments” – whether it’s wacky, lucky, comical, spontaneous, or just simply an “imagine that” moment. That’s anything from getting free tickets, finding $630 in cash, to leaving the keys in our door (on the outside -twice) at our apartment in Memphis!

Day 1

The day we leave for our belated honeymoon, didn’t quite start off on the exciting route (imagine that)…hubby gets a bill back from Memphis and spends about an hour taking care of the dispute! As a wife, I try to be as positive and encouraging as possible, telling him let’s not let this rob our joy. And, off we go…

Traveling…is not always exciting especially when you have the case of bad luck. We had a smooth ride on the train to the airport. In fact, it was much easier than we thought and only took 30 minutes to get to the airport. Once we arrived, we had about 2.5 hours. Therefore, we felt much relaxed and glad we were super early so we can sit down and have a little dinner before I nearly passed out! The airport started out with much laughter on my end. I laughed so hard I think I pulled some abdominal muscles!! Let me lay it out…literally.

For safety and security reasons, I packed my carry on into my suitcase so I didn’t have to fiddle with it on my shoulders while on the train with 3 suitcases. Needless to say, I rummage through my BIG suitcase while in line to check in with people in front and behind. I literally flew the top open to get my things and kept hearing hubby impatiently telling me to hurry up, get moving, and asked, “why are you doing this now?!” Of course, I scurried getting a little anxious because the line was moving. Then he says, “oh my gosh, oh my gosh…I can’t believe this.” Then I responded, “what is the problem, why are we in a hurry?” Then he leans over and whispers, “seriously, you just exposed EVERYTHING (he’s referring to lingerie, and “stuff”)!” Confused but saw the total embarrassment on my husband’s face, I then realized what just happened and broke down in laughter (for at least 5 minutes!). Then I continue and said, “What? We’re not going to see anyone again, what’s the BIG hairy, deal?!” Well, the people were right there and heard and saw everything. I’m still laughing throughout the airport…what the heck, we’re on our honeymoon…I could care less!!

After all that…it went downhill. But, luckily, it was all minor and I’m appreciative of the fact that we made it safely and thank God that He took care of us :-) Plus, I sat next to a 25 year-old who wore hearing aids and we had so much in common…we chatted half the trip out west!

The pitfalls or should I say, “unplanned” chain of events:

- Plane delayed 2 hrs to Denver to meet our connecting flight, but would miss the flight had they not put us on a different flight to Kansas City. Then I asked Andrew to have them check to see if our luggage gets transferred too, but he being a guy with frustration, said, “Tiff…it will get there, they know we’re switching flights.” I wasn’t convinced.

- Arrive to LAX and people warned us it was dirty (well, LA in general is) but we didn’t care…we’re just getting off to get our luggage, right?

- Waiting for our luggage at midnight (LA time and 2a our time). Get one luggage out of 3! I looked at Andrew and said basically nothing. He yells at the luggage lady all while I’m trying to tell him it’s not her fault. They said our luggage will arrive in 2 hours.

- Andrew calmed down and we waited…in the um…well, dirty place. At the time, too tired to even care. I had sanitizer anyhow.

- Flight arrives with our luggage…not on the belt. I’m convinced it’s somewhere and peeked in the holding room where they put unclaimed luggage. “EXCUSE me?!!! “ I firmly said, “those 2 are mine…how long have they been in there?!” The lady had no response!!!

- Just glad to get on the move and check out our convertible. Waited in line for a long while and went to get our car (here, you get the rental agreement and they assign you the car, then you go play “where’s waldo” with the cars by hunting down the space # and license!). It was fun but challenging when you’re in a lot of over hundreds of cars!!

- Pull up to the gate and found out we have the wrong one!! Go back to find the correct license plate # and it was terribly smokey! Andrew said we need to get a new one! Seriously!

- Waited an hour just to check out a new one and it was good enough.

- By 3a (LA time/5a our time), we rolled up to our airport hotel and Andrew wanted to stay somewhere else…it didn’t look safe to him (well, I told him to check out the travel plans before I booked them – I planned the LA trip, he planned Tahiti). I reminded him, we’re only sleeping for a few hours then we’re gone, even though I was worried about cleanness and fire hazards (from a public health standpoint), had an open outlet literally touching our mattress!! But again, too tired to even care!

Finally...a Pediatric Dentist!!

2010-07-07T10:43:00.014-05:00

It's official!!! After 25 years, Andrew is a Pediatric Dentist!! On June 30th, he called while I was in St. Louis, elated (and even had to get off the phone before he got emotional) saying this was exactly what he's been waiting for! This is his dream career and I couldn't be any prouder of my husband. He has definitely been persistent and never gave up even after 2 years of applying for residency. It took lots of praying and following God to get through all the ups and downs.

It's been a long journey between June 2008-June 2010. God has definitely been a major part of every step. In the beginning before we got married, we talked about me keeping my new, well-paid job in Louisville while he completes 2 years of residency (thinking we'd be back in Louisville). After much advice, I decided to leave my job and start over on the job search summer of 2008. God quickly provided me with a FANTASTIC experience at St. Jude Children's Research Hospital and income to support my husband while he follows his dreams! Then we kept our condo in Louisville thinking we'd come back. As it got closer to the job search for Andrew, he had office visits and offers in Charleston, SC, several in Nashville, TN, Louisville, KY, Elizabethtown, KY, and looking at Dallas, TX. Notice, St. Louis was NEVER on our radar. Well, God was in control even though we tried hard to make it work in Nashville (I was accepted into a Doctorate program there). All along, Andrew prayed that the decision will be evident. I think it became evident when I was accepted into the top occupational therapy program in the U.S. and given a scholarship!! In addition, Andrew was given an incredible opportunity in St. Louis. What sold him on the practice, are the genuine people and his senior associates. Andrew's friend from dental school called a year ago to tell him about working in St. Louis and it's amazing how we never saw this coming!! We surrendered, gave up our worries to God and trusted Him with our plans (Jeremiah 29:11). Andrew has sealed the deal with Dentistry for Children & Adolescents!! Check out their website here!!
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Below are the highlights of his graduation dinner (the day we got back from Panama City Beach!) and his surprise party on the rooftop terrace at a French hotel across from our apartment (the day before we move!). By the way, Andrew received the "goofy all the time" award...imagine that! It was CRAZY HECTIC that weekend - returning from family vacation, graduation dinner, loading the Uhaul/cars/van, and moving!!!

Just missing 1...JR became a new father that week!!

Surprise party at River Inn's Rooftop Terrace! Where we saw family, friends, professors, and friends from our church and small group!! Couldn't have asked for better support during all this time!!

Fantastic and yummy chocolate cake with strawberries and cream filling!!

Thanks to Miss Muff'n Bakery!

Whew! What a night! CONGRATS ANDREW!!!

Cross' Vacay in Panama City Beach!!

2010-07-02T09:19:00.013-05:00

On a Thursday night, Andrew and I began packing before heading to Gulf Shores after my last day of work on Friday. Last minute, I know. But, if you were there…it was quite an event…digging into boxes to get our necessary vacation clothes – undies, swimsuits, shorts, t-shirts, and whatever else we could easily get to in our packed boxes for the St. Louis move. NOTE: we had to have the apartment packed before we left for vacation because it was only going to get more hectic once we returned. Meanwhile, Andrew stops packing because his hysterical laughter was uncontrollable! I’m a bit confused (and it was a scary laughter), but realized he is laughing out of frustration…he can’t walk 2 feet without moving boxes and find his t-shirts!! So yeah, it was eventful and that was just the beginning!

Friday, we headed down to Gulf Shores to stay overnight with his parents. My younger sibs drove to Panama City Beach (PCB) overnight. My parents stayed a few more days with my grandparents to make sure their pacemakers are treating them well :-) On our way down, I finally release my stress and have a breakdown all while driving. Just a mixture of emotions, stress, and feeling overwhelmed. We planned on this vacation to be stress free and to NOT think about moving nor talk about anything other than the family vacation. That became very hard throughout the week. We were on adrenaline high and having more people on a trip…makes it harder to make decisions, to be spontaneous, and at times please one another. As the week progressed, it became a bit easier to loosen up.

This was Andrew and Ashley’s 1^st vacation with the Cross’! Us Cross kids warned them that there is LOTS of beach time – like 10a-5p. There were lots of other 1^sts for some of us: Andrew and I’s 1^st FULL week vacation together (and boy was that a TEST!), Clayton and Tilden’s 1^st time parasailing, Andrew’s 1^st time driving a Go Cart (seriously and he’s 30!). Although it was a bit hectic and there were some hair-pulling time, the vacation ended with a BLAST! Our last night, we stayed out late putting and Go Carting! In addition, some of us had some moments that were unforgettable! And there are some highlights that will be memorable…

Mallory’s moments:

- Mom, Mal , and I are relaxing on rafts in the sea, talking, catching up and all of a sudden Mallory screams with a horrified look on her face. Of course it’s contagious and caused mom to scream and nearly fall of her raft! I’m laughing uncontrollably only because I knew there were green algae floating around and saw it swift between her fingers!! Just had to be there!!

- I saw a sign, “$5 for the Sky-flyer”!! Hey, that’s a GREAT deal!! Andrew says that before insurance, and Mal responds, “that’s for not being strapped in.”

- As I sit on the edge of the pool, Mal has her hat and sunglasses on and gets in like she’s going to touch the bottom…when it’s 6ft deep! Yup, she goes under…hat and all!

- Andrew makes a comment about a green bump on the last hole of the putt-putt course that looks like butt cheeks (seriously). Well, he putts and the ball gets stuck what looks like between the butt cheeks. Mal yells out, “Oh you got a Dingleberry.” Ashley couldn’t even putt after that and I’m confused. Of course, I had to ask them to explain what that meant.

Tiffy’s moments:

- I go for a walk with mom and Mal, meanwhile a HUGE bumble bee is trying to cling on my shoulder like a little puppy trails your feet. Needless to say, beach spectators were entertained while I tried to scat it away, twirl around, run, and it still remains right on my back!!

- I’m notorious for not pronouncing things correctly, such as: “The Karshanagans”, “Pom-paynos”, and, “Keltics”. Meant to be, “The Kardashians”, “Pompanos”, and “Celtics”.

- Decided to make yummy mimosas as a morning treat for everyone. Began to unscrew the twist on the champagne bottle until the cork POPPED before I got it fully untwisted! Scared all of us, but it scared the daylights out of me! Andrew asked if I needed a pacemaker. Said we should get a group discount!

-The last day, we decided to play it all out in the ocean (despite the gunk of green algae or what looked like slime). We went inside for lunch and I went to the restroom and found I had a Shrek booty!! I was covered in green algae – YUCK!!

Dill’s moments:

- Andrew spots a jelly-fish while we were floating. I quickly swim towards shore, meanwhile, we’re all watching a guy go towards it and picks up…a jug!! Oh, we are such wimpies!!

Clayton’s moments:

- Cleans off the putt course before he putts and Mal sarcastically yells out, “I hope you make a hole-n-one for clearing your path!” What do you know…he putts a hole-n-one!!! But he and I tied as the winners :-)

Tilden’s moments:

- The living room has wall mirrors, and as he was talking he’d pause and slowly bring his arm to a 45 degree angle and return to his conversation.

Highlights:

- 1^st night (Sat. night) shopping at Wal-Mart – a BIG no, no!! Andrew and Tilden stay at home while we think our grocery shopping trip is going to take an hour. Even though it was only 2 miles down the road it took 3 hours!! 45 min of it just waiting in line – then I forget the Taco Seasoning right as they ring up our items, and ran an obstacle course to the seasoning like I was on Amazing Race! Needless to say, I barely made it!

- Shopping at Pier Park

- Imagine 8 people trying to decide where to eat!

- Margaritaville…2.5 hour wait! Then taking 2 hours to figure out where to eat next or what to do! End up at Olive Garden and had a great time :-) Plus, it was a more pleasant environment.

- The level 5 “white water rafting” on the Banana Boat out to the parasail boat (in fact, I was so sore for a few days, I couldn’t even finish my week’s workout!).

- Parasailing with my little brothers

- The restaurants: Pompano’s (probably all our favorites), Schooners (touristy and loud), and Olive Garden

- The Red Box movies: Legion (AWESOME and kind of scary), Shutter Island (way better than I had expected and NOT scary like I thought), ToothFairy (cute and great family movie), and Alice and Wonderland (Johnny Depp doesn’t make a bad movie!).

- Go Carts and Putt-Putt (and boy were we competitive!!).

- Trying to get 8 people to take family photos and make it look good in mom’s eyes! If you can just imagine.

Andrew ended up having a great time overall even though he thought the beaches are over-rated (i.e. the long restaurant waits, all the peeps, and whatever else he can’t handle ;-) As we headed home, I began to think about the loaded apartment, getting the Uhaul, my parents and Tilden sleeping on whatever space we can create, Andrew’s graduation dinner, Sunday night’s event, and moving to St. Louis Monday!! Oh, the reality of life and stress has returned! And, I’m wondering if we’re really going to relax on our LA and Tahiti “late” honeymoon?! Maybe, since we’ll already be moved and set up :-)

Heading out to parasail...

Clayton & Ashley went 1st...

Our view from 1200ft of rope!!

Beach time...and this was daddy's and Andrew's favorite spot...under the umbrella :-)

Playing PeePaw & MeeMaw's Bocce game...

The process of taking family photos...

Another night....

Finally!!

Mom knows how to have fun and make it stress free ;-)

Andrew says we need to use this picture for our annual Christmas card...

GO CART TIME!!!! And yes...I won...

Unfortunately, it wasn't fair for Mal...her cart broke down and they gave her another free ride...

Watching Mal racing like Danika Patrick...

Fun-filled, LATE last night...totally worth it!!!!

And Tilden's 1st time parasailing....

Preparing for the BIG move!!!

2010-06-10T11:28:00.012-05:00

As mentioned in previous post, the complicated history of moving our things (furniture, wedding gifts, seasonal items, etc.) from our Louisville condo, my parents, and Chris/Andrea’s attic ALL into our 860sqft apartment ALL in 1 weekend!!!! And let’s not forget to mention that we had to get Andrew’s bedroom set (5 pieces) and our 2 couches to pack up for home in KY.
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I am so thrilled to finally use our wedding gifts (except for the formal china and crystal vases/bowls - saving for our permanent place to prevent breaks). Needless to say, we tried to get rid of as much as possible to make room in our new condo in St. Louis. That meant selling our bedroom set and couches to my brother and his sweet gal, Ashley – at a low family price ;-) It also meant giving away our beautiful casual white dish set to Andrea so her and Chris can have a full set of dishes for nice dinners (Andrea is an AWESOME chef and LOVES to cook for everyone – so dishes were much needed!). Of course, there were other things we sold – washer/dryer, vacuum cleaner and giving away smaller items.
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As we’re cleaning out…we managed to purchase additional items that will be needed in St. Louis – a desk with bookshelf, and guest bed (3 pieces of furniture on our list). I happened to find them at a GREAT price on our work bulletin board (like an employee craigslist). The challenge…was getting it to our apartment! Thank goodness for family…Andrew’s aunt and uncle who ironically lived close by the sellers, had a truck and offered to let us use it. Although, Andrew wanted to wait and pick it up the day we move, I convinced him to use their truck that way we can load it all at once. They did warn us that it barely works but does the job :)

We barely survived that day…what I mean by “barely” –the truck stalled on us while making a U-turn and we made it all in one piece without getting divorce!!!! In addition, Memphis has some serious pot holes we had to dodge to prevent furniture flying and banging. So, I had to keep telling Andrew to slow down (even though he said he was “only” going 40mph in a 40mph speed limit zone!!!) Oh, and while it’s 90 degrees and smoldering, the truck has no air conditioning…something Andrew’s used to since the air conditioning in his car went out!!! So if you could only imagine 2 young and married ones bickering, sweating, Andrew yelling out he needs Xanax and says “I didn’t even want to do this today!” and I’m worried about my heart for the next few weeks! To top it off, Andrew being a guy, got frustrated while unloading the furniture by ourselves in our streets with me telling him how to carry it through the door (all while people are watching from their balconies and the restaurant), and said some not so G-rated words. In the midst of the physical and mental heat…we did what we usually do – burst into laughter and talk about how we should have a reality show!

And…that’s not all…here are some other highlights of our hectic lives so far:
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1. Taking 2 days to find an apartment in St. Louis…it was a nasty, cool 2 days. While we were about to strangle each other in the midst of running around, we finally had to stop and pray that Sunday night before we left. Thankfully we did, because we were so relieved to seal a deal on a condo an hour later!!

Let me explain...here I'm trying not to go ballistics, or strangle my hubby. Below, Andrew crashes in between appointments. So yes, it was a crazy 2 days!!

2. Me driving home 6 hours to load up the trailer with furniture at our Louisville condo, unload in Brandenburg (in my parents basement) and load from my parents basement stuff going to St. Louis. Clayton, my awesome brother, drives him, Ashley, and Tilden 6 hours to Memphis with trailer and all (behind me). Hired movers to unload and load their furniture to drive back home.

Someone yelled while crossing the street..."Wow...I've never seen anyone fit their entire dining set in their car!!"

3. Living in-between and out of boxes (literally) – I’ve been packing for a month and organized EVERYTHING and made it VERY easy for Andrew to find his clothes (including labeling boxes with the items inside) and he still goes through my boxes of clothes thinking he’s going to find his boxers!!

Poor Andrew, he just wanted to get some CD's out so he could fix a professor's computer! He had to wait for me to get home so I could climb the mountain of boxes to get to them - good thing I labeled the boxes!!!

4. I decided to run one last race before we left Memphis and ran my personal best time…26:04!!!!! Andrew has been my biggest fan!! Standing out in the heat to cheer me on!!

5. Planning the final details of our LA trip before our honeymoon…Andrew putting off renting a convertible just so he can find the “best” deal (so annoying cause he does some HEAVY research), and me being so indecisive in booking a place!

6. Getting ready for a family vacation a week before our big move – that means playing hide-n-go-seek with our clothes.

7. Andrew’s “Green Dragon” (aka ’95 Mercury Cougar) is on its last few months…battery loses connection (he fixed it once by placing a penny between the connection), windows don’t work, air conditioning doesn’t work, and door is about to fall off!! In fact, there was a day I volunteered to drive his car since my work is literally 2 minutes away. I had to park in the garage (of all the days) and made a mistake to park it sideways on a ramp. This day, I wore a pencil skirt, cute heels, and scrambled out the door all while trying to hold it back from swinging against the next car (for those that do not know…’95 cougars have huge, heavy doors). I knew I had to slam the door with all my might so it would close, only it decided to bounce off and I practically shuffled quickly to attempt to save the door from hitting the car next door – and…I didn’t make it in time - oops!!
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8. My last day at St. Jude is June 11 :(

9. My grandparents decided to have some health problems even though Andrew and I have been praying for them to have a healthy, fulfilled retirement!!
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10. The night we return from the family vacay, is Andrew’s graduation dinner.
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11. The following day...we pick up a Uhaul and load, then party that night…it’s Father’s Day!

12. Two days later, my parents and I move out to St. Louis to meet up with our movers (they unload for us at the condo). Meanwhile, Andrew sleeps on an air mattress and stays in the empty nest until June 30th.

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After all this, our honeymoon in Tahiti and Bora Bora…will be MUCH needed!!!

Dill's SURPRISE 25th!!!!!

2010-06-07T11:48:00.011-05:00

So I’m a little behind on blogging. Not to mention we’ve been out every weekend in May…including a couple surprises for family members – Mother’s Day for my mom and my in-law’s surprise 25th wedding anniversary! And a couple to prepare our BIG move – visiting St. Louis in 2 days to find our new home and 2 days of driving home to pick up furniture/wedding gifts (that have yet been in use!) in Louisville & my parents then driving the LONG 6 hours back to Memphis to load/unload (more later).

The short visit in Gulf Shores was WELL WORTH the drive and planning for the Dills!! This 25th has been in the planning phase since Christmas and the Dill kids were just getting more and more excited along the way. What we all didn’t know was how much the surprise would put Papa Dill’s health at risk! Little did we know that he was a “control freak” in his own way and did NOT like surprises!!

Let me spill a couple brief stories that should have been filmed and just might have made YouTube’s hit list! A little side note: Melissa, Andrew’s sister (daughter of Paula), did most of the coordinating. I just simply helped keep everything on track. She informed us all that Mom and Dad are NOT to do ANYTHING, nor pay for anything the entire weekend. This was a weekend ALL about them. Therefore, we do the cooking, grilling, driving, and so forth.

Friday night:
Melissa said we need to eat by 5:30p…so she patted down some burgers, started on some YUMMY baked beans, and informed her husband, Patrick, to start the grill. Soooo, Mr. Bill Dill wanted to start the fire. Oh, and let me mention that they called earlier to see if they needed lighter fluid...but didn’t get any since they thought there would be some there already.
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Melissa is inside preparing and Patrick let his father-n-law take over (he didn’t want to argue so he just watched)…Bill, the engineer, grabbed a coffee container full of bacon grease to scatter over the charcoal (thinking it would help the fire start faster). Not working, so he grabbed a towel – unsuccessful so, he grabbed some pill bottles filled with more bacon grease. In the meantime, everyone is thinking where they got all the bacon grease. Melissa has a meltdown since Papa Dill says we’ll start the grill at 6p. By this time, we arrive and I asked to help. So, I cut up some lettuce, tomatoes, onions and just do my own thing all while the commotion is going on. Andrew steps outside to help and makes matters worse….puts the burgers on top of 6ft flames! After the burgers were “so-called” ready, we finally had dinner and were very concerned about our health – pink burgers over pill bottles, towels, and bacon grease!!! Most of us do not eat rare burgers (except for Andrew) and I like mine well-done! Andrew leans over and says not once but twice, “Melissa, I think your cow says MOO.”

Notice the coffee container in the background ;-)
As you can see...the smoke is smoldering our burgers.

Friday, I got to spend a little time with our cute nephews :-)

Lil Thomas is just too adorable in Andrew's hat.

Saturday:
Melissa and I head over to the church to decorate around 3p. Andrew comes along and was supposed to leave in time to pick up the parents for our 5p dinner. The surprise reception was at 7p at the church. Andrew barely made it to their house before they left to drive themselves. We had dinner at a beautiful French restaurant owned by one of Mama Dill’s friends. We acted like this was their BIG surprise because Mama Dill didn’t know her aunt, cousin, and 2nd cousin were going to be there…she was VERY surprised!! Chris and Andrea bought a small cake at Wal-Mart with pink and polka-dotted number “25” candles to throw them off (FYI…they asked for a “real” wedding cake they never got). We had them do the wedding tradition of feeding each other the cake (all while laughing on the inside – except Chris couldn’t hold his in).

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Andrew offered to drive home and we said, “see you all back at the house!” Driving to the church (which was just down the road) seemed like FOREVER! Andrew says, “let’s look around at some antique shops!” Even though we had his sister, Betsy and her friend, his parents, and myself. Papa Dill is getting impatient thinking we had to get back to unlock the house, says all the shops are closed. Then he tells Andrew where to turn to go home…Andrew accidentally (but purposely) misses it. So he yells out to take the next right turn…and misses again. This time, he got frustrated, impatient, and tells Andrew he was distracted (by this airplane and sarcastically asked where we live and comments on how we’ve never seen a plane before) and informs Andrew he needs to pay attention. In addition, he’s uptight about us taking the long route home.
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Well, we finally made it to the reception and they were shocked but relieved to see the final results! They were so emotional and even renewed their vows! It was beautiful and so memorable!!

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The Dills are spread out over the regional area and it was a FANTASTIC short weekend to all be together (except we had 2 missing grandkids and son-n-law). We even squeezed in some beach time and lots of family time. Bill and Paula looked stunning. Paula wore her original wedding dress and Bill wore his original tie. They both wore their original wedding bands. It was so sentimental which made it more beautiful!

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CONGRATS to Bill and Paula on their 25th Wedding Anniversary!!!

The Dill kids

The set up...their Anniversary cake :-)

And we finally arrived without anyone having an aneurysm ;-)

They were SUPRISED!!!!

A wedding cake they never had...

Renewing their vows in Paula's original wedding dress and Bill's original tie and they used their original wedding bands...so SWEET!!!

Mr. & Mrs. Dill...25 years later! And they couldn't look more BEAUTIFUL!!!

Mother's Day Surprise!!!

2010-05-12T11:46:00.006-05:00

This mother's day, Andrew and I planned to surprise my mom...and then MeeMaw. We were hoping to see my Grandmommy over the weekend as well and ordered her a special gift in case we missed her...but, I was so excited to see her as well!! Thanks to my little sister who helped us make this a success...well, somewhat a success. Mother's intuition interfered a little ;-)

We stopped by Kroger on our way home to grab a plant of Stargazer Lillies for them to plant. I called mom and acted like I needed a recipe just to see if she was home. My mom LOVES leaving the screens open, even if it's 90 degrees outside!! So, she heard us pull into the driveway and I thought she could possibly think it was my dad, but her motherly instincts just thought "what if Tiffany and Andrew are coming home to surprise me." She snuck outside as I was sneaking to the front door and I see my mother tip-toe through the garage!!! "MOOOOMM!" was my exact response! But, she was still surprised and was so excited!! I guess in the end that's all the matters ;-)

I'm a little confused wondering, how could she have possibly had the thought we'd drive 6 hours home in the midst of our hectic lives?!

On the way to MeeMaw's...Tilden went in and told MeeMaw he had a gift for her...then we came around the corner with some Lillies! She too, had an intuition but was really surprised when we showed up with Lillies :-)

We found the perfect card that had a button attached and gave it to mom on Sunday morning so she could wear it to church. Ironically, she mentioned the day before that Mother's Day was all about her - haha!!

Mallory was celebrating mother's day as well, this is my cute lil nephew, Manie!! Oh, I just LOVE him so much!!!

We were so blessed with wonderful weather and a weekend with our family!! MeeMaw picked up a game, Bocce, in FL with her friends. So, she got one as a gift and we all got to play and watch her get what Andrew called, "spicy"! She ROCKED!!

Manie, so cute...just sat right in the way. Mallory rolled one right at him...we don't think he realized how heavy those balls are!!

Then, he tried to help us measure - ha!!

"Spicy MeeMaw"

We were SO GLAD...we were able to be there this Mother's Day...it was a fun-filled day with our family :-) Nothing is more precious than time with family!

Grandmommy Meets Elvis...sort of...

2010-04-06T20:37:00.012-05:00

Our last few months in Memphis is spent with family and friends visiting us and us spending time with Andrew's family. The past couple weekends we had almost my entire family down. My lil brother came down with a friend from college and we enjoyed watching the first couple rounds of the men's NCAA tournament. They also got to do some sight-seeing on their own.

Last weekend, my Grandmommy finally made it down to visit with us and meet Elvis! We told her on Mother's Day last year that our gift to her was a visit to Graceland...something she has yet to check off. She loves her some Elvis and I'm so glad we waited to visit Graceland for my family. That was a treat we've been wanting to do for a while. While in Memphis, we have waited on tours and sight-seeing events for family and friends. In fact, we have more weekends ahead for some fun times with friends and my sibs. Trying to squeeze in as much as we can before we leave.

The tour of Graceland is almost an all day thing (which we weren't exactly prepared for), however, it was worth the $$ in my opinion (even though some say it's not all that). Graceland is the #1 tour spot in the state of TN. So, it is a must when in Memphis. In fact, my dad heard someone singing along to the videos and my mom and I saw people crying!!! I managed to find some coupons online before we headed out and saved $20!! I'm just so glad that my parents were able to bring my Grandmommy down for a unique experience. Now I can say that my all my grandparents came to Memphis :-) Photos below are just a few highlights...

Graceland (click to view webiste)

The tour included 6 different places (including the mansion) and a self-guided tour via electronics.
Waiting to head inside...
(FYI - Elvis purchased this mansion at 22 years old at $100k!!)

It was a beautiful day for the tour!

As you will see...the entire house...is 70's style!

Including the mirrored walls & ceilings in the stairway to the basement...

Probably my favorite room - ha!! Sooooo 70's!!

There were so many things we learned along the way...such as how many awards Elvis received!!!

I never realized how GOOD LOOKING and HANDSOME Elvis was! They were like the Angelina & Brad Pitt of the 70's ;-)

So cute, I just had to get Grandmommy a picture with a nearly, life-size portrait of Elivs.

One of his many glammed outfits! They also had a fashion museum of Elvis' styles.

Elvis along with his parents, brother (which I had no idea he had a twin brother!!), & grandfather were buried on site at the mansion.

Elvis' automobile museum...probably Tilden's favorite ;-) This was the Mercedes Elvis purchased for his wife, Priscilla.

Tilden's John Deere :)

This little restaurant was so cool, we had Grandmommy pick out her favorite Elvis songs and we tested out the record player...you put in a quarter, choose your song, then it pulls the record to play in the record player across the restaurant!

The most interesting part about Elvis' private planes...is that they had a parade to bring it to Graceland from the airport. People had to ride on the top of the plane to hold up the traffic lights! AMAZING!! Looked like LOTS of work.

Gibson Factory (click to view website)

Next time, I will book this tour in advanced. Took Clayton to tour the Gibson Factory, however, they were booked for all their tours in the morning!! Needless to say, he plans on coming back one more time before we leave. Pictures taken in the gift shop and edited by Andrew and I...

Believe it or not, this guitar was priced at $10,000!!

Girls Escape to ARUBA!!!

2010-03-13T16:59:00.009-06:00

For my big sister’s (aka best friend) 30th birthday, she wanted to take 4 of her girlfriends to Aruba!! Needless to say, 5 of us girls from TN, KY, & SC met up at the Charlotte airport to fly 4 anxious hours to Aruba. While I DREADED flying (especially in a jet) to Charlotte, I was so relieved to finally be around my girlfriends for a little better comfort over the next 4 hours. We all left bright and early Thursday morning on February 25 and went from 25 degrees to 86 degrees many hours later!!!

While in route, we met a group of sisters who were traveling to Aruba to celebrate one of the girl’s 50th birthday; and the couple next to me was from Lexington, KY escaping for a weekend away from home stress while their kids were staying with grandparents. So you can imagine how many excited and happy people were aboard our flight!

Once we landed and stepped outside the Aruba airport, we tossed our winter coats, took off a layer or 2 (jackets, shirts) - I was about to strip off my shirt but my tan-less body wouldn’t allow me to show any skin just yet. Humidity was high but we were 5 happy girls about to have a HAPPY time soon to discover why Aruba is called “One Happy Island!”

The 1st night was spent wandering around at dusk, eating, giggling, and catching up. We just couldn’t wait for the sun to rise in the morning and thought twice about just staying awake to watch the sunrise.

Our 1st day was absolutely breath-taking - white sandy beach, aqua-blue water, and bright colors. The sun was so HOT, intense, but so relaxing!! I started my morning (before breakfast) spraying on Sport 30 sunscreen for I didn’t want to spend our short trip in pain.

Not only was the scenery a beautiful image sketched by God, but us 5 spiritual, Christian girls, sisters in Christ, dug deep conversations and got to know each other very well! Not a day went by where we didn’t talk about our Friend Jesus. We talked about our many blessings, challenges in life, values, beliefs, and even our families! We discovered all our parents are still married and how much God has provided for us and even brought us together! We prayed over every meal, including Leroux praying in Italian and our waiter joining us on our last night. There was no competition like 25 girls fighting over the Bachelor! We respected our differences and opened up to learn more about each other. This trip…was what we ALL needed and we plan on many more in the future, even with our daughters.

Our last day was on a Sunday. Since we normally go to church on this day, we decided to bring our own church together on the pier with Komis leading Romans 12. It was beautiful and humbling!!

Some Arubian Highlights (shown in some pictures above):
1. Dana & Leroux competing on who had the worst bathing suit growing up (both had very strict rules). Well, Leroux said she couldn’t top Dana’s – she had to wear a bathing suit with a skirt made by her mom. Leroux just had to wear a tank top over hers.
2. Watching the sunset.
3. Dana & Leroux attracting attention with their photography sessions (visit Leroux’s photography website here).
4. Accidentally crashing a corporate beach party our 1st night walking the beach & Dana steals name tag :) It was hard to not jump in and dance!!!

5. Lana getting so burnt…she had pitting edema + 2 (we had 2 nurses on board)!!
6. Celebrating Lana’s 30th – decorating her room while she was in the shower, rolling out the red carpet (literally, people were staring), and rolling up to the South Beach Lounge in a new black Cadillac to dance and party the night away for Lana!!
7. Going around the table at dinner and listing 30 wonderful things about Lana, the things we admire about her, and stories.
8. The waiter joining us in prayer our last night.
9. A little girl wanting to meet Miss 30 – the beauty queen!
10. Sharing the poolside with Iguanas!!
11. Beach volleyball.
12. The awesome, refreshing drinks – including the “Lana Special”
13. Meeting friendly people from all over – and a woman who said, “You can make more money in 5 minutes getting married than you can make yourself over a lifetime!”
14. Komis leading church on the pier.

15. Talking about our Friend Jesus!

The early morning BANG!!

2010-02-23T23:39:00.005-06:00

Andrew's big day started off with an early morning bang!! I made sure the world knew my hubby turned 30!!!!!!!!!!!! Most people know that I get adrenaline off being sneaky or running around like crazy just trying to pull off surprises! I LOVED every minute of getting up at 6a to start decorating the apartment while he was snoozing, throw some personalized ballons in his car, paint his car, taking my lunch break to squeeze in picking up some YUMMY homemade cupcakes at a local family owned bakery, decorating the residents' room at the hospital and the school, and leaving some treats behind!

I already felt bad for traveling to Nashville for an interview for school and therefore, we had to drive on his birthday weekend. However, it all paid off...not only did I cook a flank steak for him a couple nights beforehand, he also celebrated in Nashville with my Uncle and Aunt, and celebrated at home with my family :) It turned out to be a great weekend to turn 30!!! He definitely deserves the BEST!!

I nearly didn't make this surprise, I walked by the cafeteria in the hospital and saw a group of blue scrubs hanging at a table and looked over to see that Andrew looked directly at me! I hid behind a wall for a second before I proceeded past the other half of the cafeteria window. Thought about just bringing in the cupcakes then but just "tip toed by the window" and kept walking. Luckily, he didn't see me and I broke into the clinic with the help of some staff :) Whew!!

They actually make personalized confetti...he got lots of it!!

Mom made him a special treat...chocolate chip pie - YUM!!

Manic Monday

2010-02-08T20:03:00.005-06:00

Sunday’s sermon at Hope Church was about 4 Crossroads: choosing to walk alone, or journey with others; choosing to pretend or to be real; choosing the shortcut or the long road; and choosing comfort or change. Relationships are the place we find the challenge, encouragement, and comfort we need. Something Andrew and I have endured together these past several months. Dr. Morris referred to many verses that spoke directly to Andrew and I. Talked about being humble and patient (Ephesians 4:2), talked about using steel to sharpen steel, and one friend sharpens another (Proverbs 27:17). We’ve really had to be strong for one another during this time and some days we simply don’t talk about our future, some days we get frustrated, and some days are exhausting.

As I was sitting there during the last part of the message, I felt God speaking to me but said, "if this is You talking to me...I need reassurance, because me talking to myself doesn't really confirm anything." I was feeling more peace about our future (even though, a decision is still not made). I felt like wherever we go, we WILL make a difference and God puts us there for that reason – to share with others! Andrew has been calm throughout this whole new life-changing, decision-making time and we’ve both been back and forth on where to go and where God wants us. It’s so hard to follow Him and put aside what WE want and just wait for His call.

Today, Andrew walks out to go to school at 7:30a and halts after he opened the door…”are you serious?!” he yells out. Then a guy shoveling said, “yeah, no one saw this one coming.” While I still had about 15-30 more min of beauty sleep, he rushes and leans over me, “Honey, come look at your car, someone broke in your car!” He had a smile on his face so I halfway didn’t believe him…I finally stumbled out of bed and took the easy route and just looked out the window, snow was EVERYWHERE at least 3-4 in high! “What?!” I was upset, because I had been studying hard for an upcoming exam on Wednesday, and now…it’s just going to get pushed back! Needless to say, I crashed for some more sleep until he comes running in saying, “let’s go out and play” at 7:45a!! I’m usually adventurous, but this time…I need the sleep! However, he came back into the apartment with a bowl full of snow and started making snow cream!! I did manage to get up and have a YUMMY snow cream breakfast!!

As morning went on, I went out to take pictures, hubby sarcastically yelled at me for having the door open…just for a minute!! Of course, I wasn’t happy since I didn’t complain the other night when he had the door open for at least 5 minutes to empty our vacuum cleaner!! Needless to say, I got right back to studying in a bad mood.

At 12:45p, right before heading out for work (unfortunately, hospitals don’t get off snow days), I checked the mail. I spotted a letter from Washington University, I took a very deep breath, and carelessly tore it open! The 1st sentence told me they were pleased to offer my admissions to the Occupational Therapy program at Washington University School of Medicine!!!! I almost didn’t read on until I saw they were also offering me a Merit Scholarship!!! Oh my, oh my…I ran in and yelled, “ANDREW, ANDREW!!! Listen to this…” I couldn’t even read it…I was shaking, my heart was pounding! I literally felt like I won the Super Bowl or a Grammy and already have a list a Thank You’s :) Andrew teared up, gave me the biggest hug, and expressed how proud he was of me all while I was saying, “I’m gonna throw up” or asked, “is this a trick?!” As many people know, I’m not so romantic at times like this, for this was a repeat for him (I reacted the same way when he proposed to me).

I seriously did not know how to react! I called mom at home, on her cell, at work...no answer. Called daddy...left a voice message. Called MeeMaw...so thrilled she answered so I can tell her the news! So far, it's sinking in little, by little. I arrived a little late to work and my nervous system couldn’t handle much. In fact, I was so nauseous, sweating, feeling faint and just stared at my computer even after a couple hours. My hands were still shaking and my heart was still racing! I gradually told a few other people, but not many, because I just didn’t believe what I read! And now, I’m officially okay to say it, “I just got accepted into Wash U’s OT program and yeah…I’m NERVOUS!!”

Saturday night, my in-laws tricked me and Andrew played along!!! They threw me a surprise birthday party!! I LOVE them!!! Chris & Andrea definitely know how to be sneaky (because I am very hard to surprise)!

Andrew pulled off another surprise and showed up at work with beautiful flowers! Yes, mom, he got them at Kroger and put them together himself, including putting them in a vase we had at home! Although, I don't care much for flowers, this day...he couldn't have done better! It came with a card thanking me for all my hard work, support for him during this time, and just because :)

We were literally "iced in"!! So, we made the most of it...Andrew made an Ice Man, we went to the Movie & a Pizza place, "window shopped" at our island's hometown grocery, and ice skated in the street in our sneakers!!

Andrew being the good neighbor...putting down salt before the ice got worse :)

1 year 'til the Big 3-0!!

2010-01-27T21:46:00.008-06:00

The best time to ask me how old I am, is on my birthdays. Otherwise, I seriously do not know my age and pretty much lost count after my early 20s. In fact, I told the race officials during my triathlon in August I was a couple years younger when they asked my age to write on my leg - oops but I corrected it!! I always feel like I'm 25! Sometimes I wonder...how long will I feel 25?

Going to class from 9a-12p work from 1-9p, is not the ideal way to spend a birthday. However, having AWESOME family, friends, & husband...makes it the BEST birthday! I was overwhelmed with all my Facebook messages, the phone calls, text messages, packages, and cards and truly feel blessed :) Hubby made sure my night ended with a bang!

Birthday Highlights

1. My birthday celebration started on Tuesday night, Jan. 26 with a surprise, spontaneous dinner date to Texas de Brazil - where we devoured into 8 different types of steaks/meat, mashed potatoes, & Key Lime Pie! The last time (& 1st time) we ate here, was our very 1st Valentines as husband & wife.

2. After returning from dinner, Andrew couldn't wait to give me my gift! He tends to give my gifts early (I'm talking sometimes days or weeks early!). I didn't ask for this, but he did some thorough research on this facial cleaning product from Sephora. This was a gift from Mom & Dad and Andrew :) It's VERY nice!!

2. Andrew does not mess around when it comes to my birthday (even if it's just us). He blows up balloons, makes dinner, bakes a cake, and sings Happy Birthday!!

Strawberry Scrumptious - my FAVORITE!

3. My husband is a great chef...I'm a great baker :) He made homemade Turkey Meatballs with spinach spaghetti...my favorite type of spaghetti!!

4. I saved all my cards and packages that I got throughout the week - great cards from my big sis, Lana, & MeeMaw/PeePaw! Mom's gifts doesn't have to be extravagant...she's so creative and entertaining that I just look forward to what notes she puts into my gifts...1. Soap from Christmas, made by Aunt Jill; 2. Peach paper gift - common gift, different ingredient (goat lotion); 3. Lavendar gift - safe way to celebrate, relax and have a good time (champagne bottle candle - haha!!); 4. Rose gift - slightly used...but very good (I was worried but it was my favorite Bath & Body Works scented body spray); 5. Main gift is coming from Andrew (the facial cleanser electronic); 6. Card picked out especially for you! Signed by Mom, Dad, & Tilden.

5. During lunch break, I get a package from the Montoyas...a beautiful vase used to melt scented wax.

6. All my Facebook messages, including one from my childhood playmate and best buddy, Brett: "Happy Birthday Tiffany!!! Doesn't seem like we should be getting this old. We still should be eating suckers in a sandbox somewhere!!" I nearly choked up as memories popped up...I miss my family friends so much!!

7. My co-workers give me a cake and a few items including a St. Jude mug I've been wanting to purchase in our gift shop!!

8. An email from Mom & my MeeMaw/PeePaw and a text from my lil sis and baby brother :)

9. A phone call from my brother, Clayton & his girlfriend! Along with a duet from Andrew's parents and phone calls & messages from some of my close friends!!

10. A text message from one of my besties with a picture of her new big, baby boy, Kix: "Kix says hi, & he can't wait to meet you!" Oh, I miss her so much!!

These are just a few highlights that brightened my day, despite the full work/school day! This is why family, friends, and significant others...are the survival kit in life :) I am truly blessed!!

New Year, New Adventures

2010-01-24T14:58:00.019-06:00

The year 2009 ended with a bang and the beginning of a new decade began with…well, it’s all in the highlights. December was another busy travel month with a couple Holidays to celebrate in 3 different states. The 2nd weekend was spent in St. Louis (the 4th state of the month), a city we never thought we return to visit for a potential place to live.

January is quickly passing by along with the months before our new life of adventures begin. However, lots to check off before we leave Memphis: Andrew’s 3 research projects, boards, graduation, office visits, deciding where to move, and planning a honeymoon. I’m just taking a couple classes this semester to wrap up before OT school but very much looking forward to the moment I’ve been longing for…a REAL honeymoon in Paradise :) Some girls dream about a wedding and I’ve been dreaming of getting lost in paradise for a week or so with my new hubby! In fact, I’ve been saving up since a little girl and been disciplined to save, save, save!

Here is what has been, what is now, and what is to come…

2009 Holiday Highlights
Before heading out to KY for the early Christmas, Andrew surprised me with my Christmas present. Fine dining with a 5-star chef: butterfly pork chops, homemade mashed potatoes, and corn! My favorite dinner combination! The best part, he served it all to me like I was in a restaurant! FYI, we do not exchange gifts at Christmas. Instead we give to charity, like adopt an Angel Tree kid or give a helping hand. Therefore, we exchange stockings which we did before we left :)

We had an early Christmas with my side of the family. PeePaw & MeeMaw needed to head down to the Sunshine State for Winter so my daddy drove them and their Coach on Dec. 20! Meanwhile, we celebrated like it was really Christmas (the weekend before Christmas)! I got to see my 2 besties, one being pregnant and nearly ready to see her little boy. I was also thrilled to see our family friends (our other parents and sibs).

Getting my gifts to look presentable!

The story behind the mustaches...mom usually gets a gag gift each Christmas and this one was related to looking like PeePaw.

Yes, more SpongeBob! Oh know! We got lots of great gifts including 20 more Alfani t-shirts for Andrew. Mom and Mallory didn't talk their gifts over after I said he needed more t-shirts - ha! And I finally finished off my China and Holiday stemware!!! Now, I just can't wait to host a big Holiday party!!

Mom and dad got a little surprise. Mallory had the greatest idea to send them off on a weekend getaway. Mom being frugal, I said we need to get a gift card so she can't take it back. Needless to say, we all pitched in to give them the best weekend ever with 2 nights at the only 5-star hotel in TN & KY - The Hermitage!!

A shot with the grandparents before escaping the cold and gray!

Christmas with the Dills in Alabama!

What I wasn't prepared for, was getting up at 5am to open gifts!!!! Yes, the Dill tradition is to get up early, early, before the kids peep at what Santa has brought! This was the 1st Christmas in 10 years all the Dill kids had been together at once...it was priceless!

Little Thomas in his reindeer outfit we got him for Christmas! I LOVE it!!

Mom sent us our stockings to open on Christmas day! So we could still have somewhat of a tradition carried over on Christmas.

The Dill grandkids! Just imagine how many shots we had to take to get it decent :)

The Dill kids

I had to shop for Andrew's stuffers while in AL. Thought he could use this in the clinic :) I took the GRE the day before we left, so I was glad I didn't procrastinate on the family gifts since I literally had no time to shop in Dec.

New Years in Dallas

So the year ended with a bang hanging with the Montoyas and began with yet, some more Dill moments! It seems that the Montoyas are our lucky charms! Ashley surprised me with a pedicure and manicure spa treatment (my Christmas gift) and I LOVED every minute of it!! There's never a dull moment with the Dills!

Ashley and Jose took us to a swanky restaurant our 1st night in Dallas, at Javiers - a scrumptious Tex-Mex place!!!

New Years was spent at a fine restaurant, where the New Year began with a, "WHOA". Andrew found $630 in cash in the restroom on our way out to start off 2010! Nevertheless, we had to wait until morning to make sure it was real and called the restaurant to make sure no one reported it missing. Hubby, the good samaritan, said it's not our money. However, a waiter claimed that he lost his end of the night cash. We gladly returned and he served us a free meal! Andrew and I felt bad so we spilt dinner and Jose ended up paying for his and Ashley's. He was elated and couldn't believe there were people left like us in the world :)

Hubby's New Year's Kiss -- mmmwah!

We headed over to Ft. Worth to experience Stockyard Station and Billy Bob's Texas (the largest saloon in America!!). Where Ashley, Jose, and Andrew experienced their 1st rodeo show!

Once again, we LOVE the junk shops! Inside joke, we shopped at Blommingdale's in Dallas and I was drawn to the "earrings so large, they touch your shoulders". So Ashley and Andrew said these earrings weren't quite big enough - haha!

The 1st bull of the night...would not leave the arena for the next bull and his rider. Andrew, Jose, and Ashley were amazed and wide-eyed and asked me lots of questions! No, I don't ride bulls, I used to go to these shows with family and grandparents :)

Office Visits

Andrew has made his last office visit in Nashville this past week! He is exhausted but so relieved, however, he has big decisions ahead. He has opportunities in the following cities: Charleston, SC; St. Louis, MO; Elizabethtown, KY; Louisville, KY; & Nashville, TN. We will be keeping everyone posted!!

Since Andrew's last office visit just ended in Nashville, I decided to prepare a care/goody package for him with a card attached for his 3 day trip. We have no idea where we will be, but I wanted him to know that regardless, I support him 100%. I admire my husband and just know that he will be the best pediatric dentist out there! His passion, skills, and patient management truly shows in his profession! We have faith that God will lead us. We want to do God's Will, not ours - which is very hard at times when making life-changing decisions!

New Year, new woman! Yes, it's black, it's bold, but I like it!! Note: haircolor does not always turn out to be the color you'd like. I've gone as dark as dark brown, however, not black. Even though Andrew loved my natural highlights, he got used to the bold and spicy look :) It's fun to play when it's not permenant!

Here we were getting ready for one of our hot dates to Pei Wei - YUM! This where I had 2 fortune cookies back-to-back with the same fortune. Andrew says, "we need to buy a lottery ticket!" So we went to purchase our 1st lottery ticket together despite me taking 30 minutes to complete the form (it was confusing but we got help)! We got one number on the PowerBall! Not into gambling so that was a good fun $2 spent :) I said, "if we win...no need to even worry about where we live, we'll just move our families to Hawaii with us and retire!"

St. Jude Marathon

2009-12-30T14:11:00.009-06:00

Along with juggling a full time job, going to school, studying for GRE & class, applying for occupational therapy school…I have been training for the St. Jude half-marathon! Andrew has been training along my side as a supporter, coach, and running partner on top of school, rotations, meetings, interviewing candidates, research, & fixing computers! Hence, probably why our lives have not been updated since October ;-)

Training started approximately 10 weeks prior to race day, Dec. 6. I wasn’t exactly nervous, but a little anxious the closer race day was approaching. Us runners were all praying for good weather – not necessarily warm, but clear weather. Last year Andrew and I volunteered for this event and it was well below freezing and cloudy. So cold we only lasted a couple hours passing out water and PowerAde! After an hour, I couldn’t feel my hands and feet! But I was elated to see someone I knew run by…my high school track coach, Coach Kerrick!!!!! I hadn’t seen him since high school…what are the chances?!

This year, the weather was GREAT! It was sunny and 25 degrees! Luckily we live close enough downtown that we decided to walk to the Start line at 6:30am. So that gave me 2 miles of a warm-up. With 15 corrals (waves) I was #9 at the 10 min mile pace…since I didn’t cross the start line until 20 min after the 1st wave…that gave plenty of time for my phalanges (fingers/toes) to freeze up.

Even Elvis ran :)

Before we took off, a little girl (approx. 5) with ALL (Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia), sang the National Anthem – soooo cute! And her dad, thanked all the runners and people who helped fundraise the 1.7 million dollars (just from the marathon)!! FYI, St. Jude runs on $1.6 mil/day and all the costs of the hospital, state of the art technology, employees, etc. are funded – by not only the people but grants and organizations as well!!

I am a very anxious and impatient person so if you could only imagine me waiting 20 min. to cross over. Andrew walked with me to the start and off I went! Despite my numb feet during the 1st mile…mile 1 came up quick! I was so focused on keeping a pace and watching the spectators cheer us on that I got distracted from thinking about miles into the race. Long distance running is all mental and distraction is a great thing!

As I was approaching mile 3, I started to choke up a little…live bands were playing (some were kids’ bands), people standing out on their balconies playing music or watching us in their PJ’s with a cup of coffee in the 25 degree weather – was all too overwhelming! A guy was even holding a sign that read, “If it were easy, I’d be running.” My primary motive was running for St. Jude and reaching my goal pace time of 10 min miles was only minor. I ran down Beale Street (the street of blues, jazz, and bars), thousands of people lined up on both sides hooting and hollering! Then I saw my hubby, “HONEY!!! Here I am!!!” He got so excited he couldn’t get his camera rolling quick enough. He said he realized he had to make a decision – to cheer, or take pictures.

Between miles 4-5, we ran through St. Jude’s campus and I was AMAZED once again to see the patients lined up bundled up hiding their faces behind their isolation masks and some with their IV poles. Signs, employers, CEOs, and our corporate band – oh my! My favorite sign read, “An IPOD = $150, Running shoes = $100….Saving Children’s Lives = Priceless”. Holy Smokes! These were some good signs! As I ran by, I smiled and some yelled out, “Thank you Heroes” or “Go, Heroes” – FYI, I ran as a St. Jude Hero and helped fundraise $280. This was enough to keep going at a steady pace. After all, I was already a fourth the way through!

As we approached miles 6-7, cars were driving by honking under the bridges, people were standing outside their homes, children were yelling “Go Mommy” or “Go Daddy” and some were yelling, “Thank you for running for St. Jude!” I saw one guy in a wheelchair bundled under a parka coat with what looked like his wife standing behind him. I tear up just thinking about every step I took.

We ran through Overton Park in miles 8-9 and that’s where Andrew’s mom, brother and family, were going to be. It was a good point to have family standing because it means I’m getting closer and it was a good time for extra motivation. Although, I didn’t see them, I pretended they were there :) And they were, I just overlooked them.

Around mile 10 we ran past the Target House, where St. Jude kids and their families stay if they stay longer than a month for treatments (it’s like apartment housing). Again, families, kids, and even people in their cars were yelling for us to keep going.

The full and half marathon runners ran together until around mile 12. By that time, I was getting so excited not only because it was almost over, but my time was under 10 min the entire way (sometimes at 9 min)! Trying not to get too excited, I had to try hard to keep a steady pace. Well, my body didn’t quite listen to my thoughts and picked up around mile 11. I heard the announcer from a distance closer to mile 12.

Between mile 12 & 13, we just had to pass by the Wonder Bread factory. The aroma didn’t quite make me hungry by any means, but I sure did smell a little something of cotton candy around that time as well (I LOVE cotton candy)!! I also ran by a couple runners down being escorted by ambulance or medical personnel so I prayed for them. I continued to pray for strength and knew God paved each step for me.

As I approached mile 13, I really began to pick up and began sprinting once I entered the AutoZone Park (the AAA baseball stadium). Into crossing the finish line, I threw up my hands and screamed, “Yey, I did it!!!” I was happy especially since I crossed under my goal time at 2:09:44 (that's nearly 20 min faster than my 1st half-marathon!!!!)!! The stadium was packed and I felt like I was a football player in the NFL playoffs! It was AMAZING!

I looked for hubby up in the crowd and he heard my name announced so he began taking random pictures not knowing where I was. He finally spotted my bright pink cap. I actually ran into him once I came up and was so glad to see him. I missed him so much! It was comforting to see him there and stand for over 2 hours in the below freezing temperatures to cheer me on. He was so pumped he said, “honey, let’s do a marathon together next year!” Uh, WHAT?! I just ran 13.1 miles…26.2…seriously?!

We headed home and walked back 2 painful miles (since the trolley was broke down -- of all the days). My feet were in some trouble. I went home to shower, make some mac-n-cheese, visit with his family for dinner, and wanted to party, but Andrew was tired. Needless to say, I didn’t realize how tired I was until he rubbed my feet and gave me 2 Advils. I passed out cold at 9:30p.

This was by far, the most AMAZING race I’ve ever ran! And by amazing…well, words can not describe the experience! I strongly encourage 1st time and regular marathon runners to participate in the St. Jude Marathon. You will walk away feeling like a winner – you’re a part of saving children’s lives, literally!!

Click here to read the story from our local paper. Click here to check out images of the race on St. Jude's website.

Spook-tacular Weekends

2009-10-31T21:26:00.007-05:00

The past couple weekends have been spontaneous and eventful! Mom, cousin Ned and some of the locals in Meade Co. vs. the Harlem Wizards; postponing our Dallas trip and instead...pack in a Zoo visit, Memphis Grizzlies signing and practice, River Art Fest, hot date night, and an AWESOME estate sale that was way beyond our bank accounts!

The estate sale had all items including furniture from the 1800's! Exquisite furniture pieces hand carved! A druggest (aka Pharmacist) bought this house as a 10-year Anniversary gift for his wife!

This dining room table was $15,000 and the silver platter pieces, china, and fancy crystal candle holder - were all at least $600 - $6,000!

I LOVED this antique bassinet...so beautiful, but almost just as much as a car - $10,000!!

A fun free date...a day at the River Art Fest!

Our hot date night (maybe once a month) at one of our favorite Thai restaurants on another discounted gift card we usually get online!

The Memphis Grizzlies

Last Saturday morning not only started with an early breakfast in bed...but Andrew's buddy from school took us to the Grizzlies signing and practice. Boy, was it an adventure...we're thinking you have to stand in line for the players autographs and Andrew had it all planned out the night before (he's an avid sports collector) -- but only to find out they handed out 5 different colors of paper with section #'s listed. Meaning you only have 1 chance to get 1 autograph per person per player. Andrew and Thai's strategic plan was to go to Office Depot and color copy each slip (we had 3 different colors between the 3 of us and all we wanted was Iverson and Mayo's autograph). Well, come to find out...all that work, Iverson and Mayo were the 2 colors we didn't have but luckily they were able to trade 1 color each. Andrew was please to get Mayo's. We were there from 8:30a-1:30p so it was a long day. In the meantime of waiting, I go out to get Starbucks, get chased down by a woman with a mic (interviewed me for the news on Chris Rock's new movie that I had no idea about), and get put outside for 45 min. to drink my $4 pumpkin spice latte in the cold (they wouldn't let me in with outside drinks)!! NOT worth $4!!!!

On a color copy run...

Andrew found a few colors in the trash, but only the ones we already made copies of - go figure!

This guy, Thabeet -- a rookie, barely had to jump at 7ft 3in!

Since I didn't have a slip to get Iverson's autograph, I at least got a close up shot -- but later heard he was a jerk. So, we're glad we got Mayo's out of all the players ;)

Meade Co. vs. The Harlem Wizards

Mom practicing her jumpshot during warm-ups.

I cheered loud...I mean LOUD, for my MOM!!!

Mom and cousin Ned.

Once a cheerleader -- playing basketball behind some lipstick. Mom and her 4 minutes of Fame!

Uncle Andrew and Aunt Tiffy

2009-10-31T20:31:00.010-05:00

The past couple of weekends we've been able to spend lots of time with our precious nephew -- Thomas Christopher, and his mom and dad! Last night we had our first night of babysitting the 3 month old while Mommy and Daddy ran a few errands. He was so much fun to be with despite a little fuss, change of diapers, and a "burgh..." splat (spit up). I did have a little challenge in the beginning I broke sweat trying to get his teeny shirt off while keeping his limbs attached ;-) He literally is the most precious thing with big, bright blue eyes.

Andrew had his little special time...attempting to giggle and what Andrew says, "he was trying to talk" to him. Thomas had quite a few giggles with silly Uncle Andrew...

I, on the other hand, had to be the one putting him to sleep...Andrew says it's my touch ;-)

Last weekend, we got to take him out with Mommy and Daddy to the Zoo Boo at the Memphis Zoo. I just couldn't wait to get him out. In fact, I've already asked to take him to the Zoo, for walks, and just out and about. I also enjoyed a shopping trip with Thomas and Mommy! Such great times!

The 3 Musketeers :)

Looks like a little porcelain doll

After we had our date night...we had a movie night and play time with Thomas...

My 1st time playing with this little baby pack thing...

AWESOME! What a great way to begin dance lessons ;-)

Today, we got to take pictures of the beautiful family...sneak preview of Christmas pictures!

So precious!

And my favorite candid shot...Chris was actually acting like he was pointing at something horrific and Andrea looked so natural with the expression - so cool!

Paducah Life with the Bohanons

2009-10-08T21:49:00.006-05:00

God has blessed Andrew and me with great friendships! We have couple friends and develop stronger relationships with them as we get older. The Bohanons are just one of the few couples we are fortunate to have in our lives!

Andrew and Kent met in their college days at Murray State University. They were the computer nerds and just flat out know how to have a good time! In fact, Andrew often says that he could put a group of his buddies together and create a sitcom. They became best friends and remain close despite their living distances.

Then come along the tall, volleyball playing, blonde from Illinois…Tracy who just so happened to meet Kent while they were on their Disney World of adventures College Internship. They are truly a beautiful and compatible couple (inside and out). They’ve been married for 4 years on October 12!!! To be quite honest…no one could even tell what year they’re on with their newly-wed demeanor :) I remember meeting them for the first time hoping that Andrew and I could be like that after so many years…we’re working on it and hope it keeps burning ;-)
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Kent and Tracy are admirable and now live in their new home, Paducah, KY – where Kent is originally from. Over the weekend we shared how blessed we are with our careers and our spouses who deeply care about us.

We had a BLAST experiencing their Paducah Life (a magazine they were recently featured in). Paducah is much like a historical town with brick roads, murals by the river, and swanky restaurants where all the locals hang. In addition, EVERYONE knows Kent and even his brother-n-law, Todd, who also spent time with us. By the way, Andrew built Todd’s computer back in the college days and he showed us the antique piece (which still works!!) in his office. Todd is an AWESOME magician (on the side) who pretty much hops and entertains around town! If you can only imagine (beyond these pictures) our Paducah Life experience with the Bohanons and Kent’s sister, and brother-n-law!

Wondering why there is Ketchup and Mustard in syringes - it's for your human burgers! We went to a "freaking" AWESOME haunted house - Talon Falls on a Full Moon night!!
We visited Superman's hometown, Metropolis, IL (just next to Paducah, KY) and checked out the Superman shop - for the serious collectors. Anyhow, Andrew and I can never get serious...

Kent & Tracy...the power couple!

Yes!! Finally have the body I've always wanted.

Of course, we can't get by without Andrew and Kent making fun of his "tighty-whities!"

The shop...a little scary. Might not be the place to bring the little ones ;-)

We got to devour into the Dip-n-Dots. Originated in Paducah, KY!

Enjoyed the hometown's local wine shop where we not only tasted the locals wine and beer but I also lit up when they told me about their organic, strawberry beer - so strawberry-licious that you have to pick the seeds out of your teeth. Seriously, is it even legal?! Tracy, the auditor, who made Kent go back in and double check the receipt...they accidentally charged them full price on an item 75% off!! In the end, everyone agreed it was worth the $26 back in the wallet!

Real women...smoke cigars ;-)

At Max's Brick Oven - scrumptious and an AWESOME place to hang with the locals!

All their desserts are homemade...so we couldn't decide on one and shared all 4!! Talk about going home with a full belly!

Re-visiting our mini-honeymoon!

2009-10-01T20:17:00.018-05:00

At 11am on Friday, September 25, my husband (just shy of 1 year) picked me up from work to take us off to re-visit our 2-day honeymoon in Nashville! We have both been counting down the days for this weekend – partly, because we knew it was going to be a relaxing weekend. I’m excited and anxious mainly because I don’t know where we are staying and did not plan anything for the weekend. I left it all up to Andrew. I didn’t even do the packing. YIKES!! The entire 3 hours, I was uncomfortable feeling like I might have forgotten something and hoping Andrew got all my things in the car!

Reflecting on 1 year ago…

Andrew had plans to take me somewhere tropical (was planning a year in advanced). However, residency wasn’t going to allow him any time off…he nearly had enough time to get off the day before the wedding!! It was a little stressful in the beginning, not knowing if Andrew was going to get there on time! So, he convinced me he was on call our 1st week of marriage (eeek!), but overall, I was very supportive and told him it’s okay…we’ll take a nicer one later. We’ll even have time to save up money and we can celebrate after he graduates and take a longer honeymoon.

All along, I had NO IDEA he had a trick up his sleeve (I mentioned before, it’s hard for him to surprise me)!! People would ask me all night, “where’s the honeymoon?” My response, “our apartment in Memphis!”

Not only did we stay our 1st night at the modern Hyatt downtown Louisville (surprise #1 – I thought it was the Galt House). Hyatt was much nicer and great service…Andrew got us a room tucked away in a corner where it was quiet and with a GREAT view of the city of Louisville! He even ordered breakfast (1st time we’ve ever tried out room-service!). Then we went to Huber’s Orchard and Winery where we squeezed in our traditional pumpkin picking, wine-tasting, and pumpkin ice cream! Our favorite wine at Hubers, is the Spiced Apple wine – a seasonal wine that comes out only in September until they sell out (which usually only lasts 2 weeks!!!). I wanted to purchase a case of them (discount). I thought a case was 6 bottles until I saw the price…Andrew picked up the box and thought “why is it so heavy?”! They saw our confusion and said it was 12 bottles!!!!! HOLY MOLY!! What are we going to do with 12 bottles and there is literally no room in our car for this! We walked away anyhow since I already swiped my card and gave at least half away as gifts :)

You bet I ate all my french toast on the right!!

Yes!! We got the pumpkins and case of wine packed (the car was crammed with most of my clothes, shoes, etc. - I had to move the same weekend we got married!). The next challenge was getting to the next place without everything falling out! In fact, we had to tell the bellmen several times, "let us put our stuff in the car...every square inch is taken!"

Surprise #2

2 nights in Nashville at Hermitage Hotel (I was told the only 5-star hotel in TN)! I was floored! I just didn’t think he’d get 2 days off! He did get someone to cover his call though…thanks to the Peds Team :) They all help each other out especially if they have special events on their call weekends. Those 2 days were rejuvenating and full of together time with no schedule whatsoever! Whatever we did was out of spontaneity – the Country Music Hall of Fame, walking around for 5-6 hours, and enjoying our FABULOUS room and bathroom!! I couldn’t have asked for a better surprise! Plus, the 1st night, Andrew was trying hard to get me out to grab something to eat by 7p…I just wanted to be lazy but he finally managed to get me out of the room. As we got on the elevator, a bellman walked by with a bag of rose petals. I’m not the romantic type, but I still said, “Awe, someone’s getting rose petals in their room.” Later I found out where the bellman was heading, I saw a heart outside our door after dinner and opened the door to see petals on the floor, bed and soft music playing, chocolate and snacks with water by the bed…oh my, I just didn’t know what to do except blush ;)

Had no idea we'd actually be there for the Playoffs in January!!

Our night dressing up and dining in my new pearls Andrew got me for a wedding gift :)

The Hermitage is so famous that celebrities and even the U.S. presidents have stayed here...this is the #1 bathroom in the U.S. - and we've been to the #2 bathroom in our own city - Louisville, KY at 21c Museum Hotel!

Music Row

The Batman building

Country Music Hall of Fame

Growing up...my favorite was Shania Twain...recorded her videos and had the jean outfit ;-)

Our Bathroom

Surprise #3 of the trip

We had a great view of the Capitol with a beautiful sunset backdrop. Since he splurged on the room, we didn’t use room-service.

Memories of our mini-honeymoon brings smiles on my face and a few giggles. I feel like this is our first time all over again, I got jitters on the way to Nashville. As we pulled into downtown, Andrew was driving around trying to confuse me. He pointed to the Sheraton’s parking garage but kept driving like he was trying to find some street parking. Then, I see us approaching the Hermitage!! Andrew?! Seriously?! He informed me over the summer that we couldn’t go back to our honeymoon hotel, they raised the prices $100 more than last year! Again, I was okay and said it was no big deal.

He got such a good deal this year that he could hardly hold it in…there were several times where he asked if he could tell me. He wanted the same room but said he couldn’t afford it…so they said “how about we throw in the American breakfast and valet parking if we put you in a different room for less than the price of last year?!” They had letters in the room for us that gave the details along with personalized stationary. In addition, Andrew brought the wedding cake!! They put it in the fridge for us and said to let them know when to bring it up. Then, the planning of Andrew came out – he set up the room with our wedding pictures, brought some Reisling, downloaded our 1st dance song on the computer and played it through the room speakers that night. He had a notebook of the weekend events!!! FYI, my hubby hates planning! It drives him crazy when I plan months in advanced for trips or whatnot!

Again, I couldn’t have asked for not only a better weekend but for a better husband!! It was once again, another relaxing and memorable weekend.

Andrew setting up our pictures

"What's on the agenda, Honey?!"

Re-visiting some picture spots 1-year later!

Nightly turn down service - bubble bath and ZZZZZ.

We even got room service for breakfast both mornings. Their service was above and beyond, so we didn’t know what to do or expect. In fact, our 1st morning we ordered, they brought up our tray to the room and asked to come in. They asked where to set it up and I’m thinking we’ll get everything out…nope, they do it all and make sure you’re pleased with it before they walk off and even ask to pour your coffee!!

Friday night into town

Here we watched the UK Wildcats get eaten by the FL Gators in a mountain of bubbles

Had a hard time finding Andrew...

The night Andrew surprised me with some fine dining at a Jazz Restaurant, F. Scotts.

Saturday night at midnight (on our 1 year), they brought our cake…oh my gosh!!!! The guy walked in and said, “Happy Anniversary!” I was astonished and nearly cried! They actually set up the cake for us and decorated it with our flowers and even added fresh rose petals. Delivered it on a silver tray with formal silver ware and a cutting knife!! I think they even smoothed it out for us (my mom was worried the icing would be off - they had an ice-storm and no electricity for a week so the cake completely de-thawed!). Their service is truly phenomenal!!! By the way, the cake was DELICIOUS!! Just a little dry but no taste of freezer burnt…tasted exactly how it did 1 year ago (not even exaggerating)!!

I will never forget the mini-honeymoon or our 1st Anniversary weekend!! Thanks, Andrew for exceeding my expectations!!!

1 Year Ago...

2009-09-26T22:04:00.016-05:00

I can remember nervously looking over the ceremony site from my grandparent’s doorway. People often called their house the “White House”. It has 4 large white columns with black shutters. I was anxiously waiting to walk down the newly paved driveway in my daddy’s arms. There were so many people and I nearly panicked with all the emotions. All 320 seats were filled plus there were some standing in the back and a couple on the cabin’s porch. “Can I go now?!” as I began to step on their renovated porch. “No, just a minute, sweetie.” as he watched for my aunt to signal us to come. I got confused because I heard my song, “Hallelujah Chorus” which means it’s time! I nearly jumped out on the paved driveway and grabbed my daddy’s arms, “slow down” he said. I saw that my 4 little Misses were still making their way in the carts pulled by my Uncle’s elite miniature horse, Cutter. Most people know…I get terribly anxious and therefore, get very impatient by excitement. I saw my daddy brush some leaves off my dress and I said, “that’s okay…it’s just natural, doesn’t have to be perfect.”

My mom was also bursting with excitement all day and couldn’t stop talking about how “perfect” everything was coming along, the weather, the set-up, etc. I don’t believe in perfect, so she would end up saying, “almost perfect”. I took a deep breath and tried very hard, to walk elegantly down the driveway towards my groom. I looked around and realized my mom was right (I’m just now admitting this), that God’s nature, beauty, his people, my family, the wedding – is perfect. I never dreamed I’d be walking down this driveway on the most calm and beautiful September day to marry my husband (FYI, we had a damaging, high wind storm 2 weeks prior and without electricity 1 week prior)! After all, she did pick our wedding date (I wanted it in Oct.).

I finally saw the end result of all the DIY (Do-It-Yourself) planning and preparation. All the months of my family and friends cleaning, clearing out the backyard, remodeling, and gathering ideas…truly shined through! As I approached the back end of the crowd, I saw my friends, mentors and colleagues and wanted to thank each of them for coming right then and there…so I waved with my bouquet in hand. When I turned down the aisle, the climax of the orchestra playing Hallelujah heightened, and I saw Andrew's family and my family. My daddy turned to me and said, “you having fun,” and almost too overwhelmed, I responded and said, “this is so much fun!” That’s when he said, “well you look like it and you look so happy!” I finally eyed my groom whom I hadn’t seen for 3 months up until this weekend! He was grinning, ear-to-ear, and I was giggly (I’m not much of a crier but thought I would at least be in tears, so my emotions were replaced with giggling). Andrew handed my dad the Bride’s Bible (significant in our marriage) and my dad, joined us together.

This was only the beginning of the next chapter in our life and I could not have asked God for a better day, a better wedding, and we were truly blessed to have had all our friends, colleagues, mentors, and families – for they are a significant part of our lives. What amazed me even more was how much some had sacrificed to be there to share our special day – some were sick and even released from the hospital, others traveled long distances, and a few came briefly due to other events! Having them there alone was enough to complete our special day.

The details...

Fall is our favorite time of the year which was the reason we MUST have pumpkins and the whole she-bang! We made Huber's Orchard and Winery our annual trip for pumpkin picking, wine-tasting, market shopping trip since the beginning of our dating relationship. Therefore, every detail of our wedding day - had some type of sentimental value!

The Roberts Family Farm helped give our wedding a beautiful Fall look...pumpkins, mums, straw bales, a wreath made out of PeePaw's old barb wire fence with pieces of all the wedding flowers, decorated pumpkins, a chandelier made out of ripe vines and miniature pumpkins, decorated all grand entrances, and so much more!

Dad made this cross out of an old Dogwood tree. Below the cross, is a vase that was completed by the parents and grandparents who placed flowers in remembrance of a loved one in their family (i.e. our deceased loved ones - grandparents and great-grandparents that were a part of our lives).

I made all the flowers - Bridesmaids, Lil Misses, Bridal bouquet, and center pieces...from Garden Ridge :) I couldn't have asked for better bridesmaids or a wedding party in general...they have all been the most supportive and loving group of family and friends throughout our lives!!

Sheila Reott of Dolce Vita Bridal shop in Louisville, KY, made my earrings. We designed and she put it all together with Swarovski Crystals and pearls to match the details on my dress.

The three strand of pearls represented my mother and both my grandmothers. I wore all three while my mother wore the multi-color pearls and my grandmothers the solid white pearls...all from Shane Co. Uncle Bill and Aunt Jill got their elite miniature horse, Cutter, all dolled up and escorted my Lil Misses. Each one had a duty...Kaleigh carried the rings on a miniature pumpkin and handed to the Best Man, Molly carried the Bride's Bible and handed to Andrew, Sophie rang the Bell on the 4th hour, and McKenzie, walked in with some flowers.

Our programs were created by Andrew and me. It was a story album like a kids book with pictures of each chapter of our life along with the wedding program in the middle and all the sentimentalities listed in the end.

All center pieces were canning jars used by my late Papaw who canned the best green beans! The jars were wrapped with big gold and cream ribbons and corn in side to hold the flowers and twigs in place. Homemade snacks were provided and made by my MeeMaw along with her famous LeTang Tea and my PeePaw's popcorn stand. These were all a part of childhood memories and part of my experiences living on my grandparents' farm.

My mom and MeeMaw's wedding dresses were up on display along with their wedding pictures. And I wore my MeeMaw's 50-year old wedding dress the night of rehearsal! We surprised her and had it cleaned...it was yellow from being in storage and she didn't think it would look brand new!!!

The quilts were my great-grandmother's and were used on the straw bales where the Lil Misses sat and on the display tables. We also cleaned the old Amish horse buggy which was used to hold all the gifts. There was also an old white carriage displayed with a sign, "Memphis Bound" on the back. We didn't really take off in the carriage :)

Last but not least and my favorite...is our cake on tiered princess pumpkins. This was a must for me and Ruth Ann Nash, made it all possible with the help of her husband to get my cake on stacked pumpkins! My mom bought us the Waterford Crystal Cross to display in the center and my Grandparents' cake topper was also used in my parents wedding. It's been used in 3 weddings! Instead of purchasing a cake knife and server...we used my parents!

Flashbacks...

2009-09-26T15:36:00.004-05:00

While I may not have been the typical little girl dreaming and planning her wedding her entire life, I knew all along, I wanted an outdoor wedding. I’m an outdoorsy gal and couldn’t have it any other way. In addition, I grew up on my grandparent’s farm and brainstorming with my close girlfriends helped me make my final decisions for an elegant, rustic, sentimental farm wedding. At first, I wasn’t sure if that was the best choice since I didn’t want to put a burden on my family (there were lots of cleaning up to do!!). The only stress for me was the beginning, finding my dress and choosing a location –everything else just kind of fell into place. I prayed a lot along the way and therefore, didn’t worry one time after I found my dress (well, I had a dress battle – was very unsure of my dress until I saw the final touches at my final fitting). My mom worried more than I did and I just wanted everything to be natural. It’s all in God’s hands; I can only do so much. He controls the weather, circumstances, etc. I can only control what I do here on earth. I it sounds crazy, but I had complete faith because I didn’t want to rent tents! I wanted everything outdoors. So you could imagine how much praying was going on around our place :) Plus, I did my research, September and October gets the least amount of rain in the year so if it did rain, I was okay. Needless to say, I didn’t check the weather the entire week…I knew I’d lose my faith if I knew there was a chance of inclement weather. And the weather ended up being in the 70’s with an overcast all day!

I also wanted to be very economical, so I prioritized my budget and pretty much over budgeted on everything except for photography (that’s where I wanted to spend the most of my money – I LOVE pictures!!!). Having a job after grad school was a blessing. I put away half a paycheck each month and saved even for a nice honeymoon (I always dreamed more about my honeymoon than the wedding!). Being sentimental and doing everything myself (including flowers) helped quite a bit to keep the budget down. Another pro to low costs, was having it at our own place in a small town. I realized I would have spent at least another 10k if I pursued the location in Louisville, KY (paying for facility rental and other costs are higher in the cities). Our wedding successfully put together under 10K!!!

Top Secret: My dress was bought off the rack at Bridal & Formal in Cincinnati, OH for $199 - was $1250!! (which just so happened to be my favorite bridal designer, Maggie Sottero). Took it to Csilla Designs in Louisville, KY who transformed my dress exactly how I wanted it to look! It ended up still being cheaper than the regular price dress I was looking at in the first place!

Other money saving tips for the Bride:

- Have at a unique location where you have less restrictions (i.e. city parks, home or a family/friend's residence, etc.)

- Recycle, Reuse...I went through my PeePaw's shed and found many things such as old fence posts and spray painted them black to hang LED lanturns. My dad bent the top a little and I just clipped them on. Used the lanturns to line the driveway when it got dark for people to find their way back to their cars. Old barn wood was used to make rustic looking signs and nailed them to old tobacco sticks and hammered into the ground in different areas.

- Make your own programs, invites, and save-the-dates...we used Microsoft Publishers to personalize everything. Take it to Office Max or Office Depot and have it printed on paper of your choice! I knew I wanted to make my own programs and invites and thought going to the Scrapbooking stores such as Archivers would save some $$...it was actually way over the budget!! I just ended up purchasing stamps and ink to add a little fancy to things such as popcorn bags.

- Personalize party favors...we bulk ordered some adult and kids toothbrushes with our names and dates (so cheap...like $.010/toothbrush!). In fact, 2 of our friends have used them in their weddings! Another cheap favor idea...candy treats...it's edible and not going to go to waste :)

A dwindling economy doesn’t mean brides can’t fulfill their dreams :) It is possible to walk away with money in your pocket.

On Adrenaline in Atlanta

2009-09-22T20:33:00.015-05:00

Neither of us had been in downtown Atlanta. We may have passed through, been stuck in the airport for hours, and I have been there for a 1 day seminar while in grad school…but never have we stayed for an exhilarating 72 hours! Despite the gray skies, fog, and downpour…I pulled on my rain boots, Andrew rolled up his pants, and we grabbed our camera, money and tickets to head in the fast lane!

Again, we visited Priceline and landed a 4+ star hotel – Hyatt Regency Downtown for $50/night!!! Priceline is great for reasonable weekend trips…just select the area of town, choose a 4+ star hotel, and bid your price. Then the research began to plan a fun-filled weekend!

The view of the lobby of Hyatt Regency Downtown Atlanta.

We usually work half Fridays whenever we drive long hours for weekend trips. The great thing about visiting in Atlanta is that there are so many things to do. When planning a trip whether it’s with family, friends, or significant others, there are events for everyone! We did some research and found 50 Fun Things to Do in Atlanta. Since we were somewhat on a budget, we decided to plan for the following: Braves game, Georgia Aquarium, and the World of Coke in addition to attending my cousin's wedding party. The money saving hint…buy combo packages! Click here to see the various packages you can purchase through the Georgia Aquarium! We ended up purchasing scalped tickets for the Braves game (since we didn’t know how the weather would be nor did we think we’d make it on time) and bought the Pemberton Pass for $36.50. To get the best bang for your buck…purchase the City Pass if there for a few days. Over a period of 9 days, you can visit 6 Atlanta attractions for $69.

MLB - Atlanta Braves

We barely made it for the game! The weather was terrible – gloomy with some major rain in Memphis as well as during the majority of the drive to Atlanta. Needless to say, we literally dropped our things off at the Hyatt, hopped in a cab, bought scalped tickets via our cab window, and arrived at the game by the 3^rd inning! My heart was racing the entire time! I didn’t think we’d make it since the cab driver was SOOOO SLOW!! I thought cab drivers were crazy, maniacs?! We still gave him an extra dollar for tip in the end :) Despite the big loss….we had a blast and Andrew somehow captured me on the megatron during the change of pitchers. I was a dancing fool once I heard Andrew say, “Tiff…you’re on the screen!!” Transportation back to the hotel was a little confusing once we got on the MARTA train…no signs, no announcements…just guess where to get off. We ended up walking a little further back to the hotel. We were fortunate to have made it through the night with no rain.

After we returned from the game, I gave Andrew his early Anniversary present…a swiss, skeleton watch he’s been wanting for years! He thought he was getting it next week, but I had it shipped overnight and gave it to him early. He LOVED it!!

Under the Sea - Georgia Aquarium

The Georgia Aquarium is the largest aquarium in the world!! Our favorite part of the visit was sitting in a room where it felt like you were “under the sea”! In the tunnel - you could see a 7-foot ray, large whale sharks, and other creatures big and small swimming all around you. There were different sections of the aquarium – river creatures, cold water swimmers, whales, and so much more! There were parts where you could pet the rays, sharks, star fish, and some type of slimy things that have rubber tentacles. You could also watch the divers feed the reefs and do their maintenance duties. They also have a 3-D movie but it was extra and it didn’t come with the Pemberton Pass. Great place for a family to tour!!!

FYI...to alleviate jellyfish sting pain...apply vinegar!

So cute!!

Afterward, we headed over to Taco Mac to meet up with the family and watch the Big Game – Cards vs. Cats! GO CATS!!! Poor Andrew…he cheered hard for his team until the end but showed good sportsmanship and congratulated us (the Cross clan – bleeds BLUE). Andrew says that is not biologically possible.

Nick & Brenna's Party(ies)

My oldest cousin, Nick, (on my dad’s side) married a beautiful, fun, young gal – Brenna, in Santa Barbara, CA. While we didn’t get to see their wedding in the hills of God’s beautiful nature (we saw pictures), we did have fun partying down with them on Saturday night at their wedding party at The View of King Plow Art Center and “after party” on the rooftop at Whiskey Blue in W Hotel (a party after a party – literally). Andrew and I had been looking forward to this for a long time and it was a swanky, schnazzy party! It was a formal cocktail event that was well-organized and much fun! In fact, I probably danced for 2.5 to 3 of the 4 hours!

Then we headed over to Whiskey Blue for the private after party where we gave them the code name to get in. The elevator door opened and oh my…a contemporary, leather couch in an elevator!!!! Seriously! By the way, the elevator was like the size of a small bedroom! The elevator took it’s time up to the rooftop terrace. We headed over to see Nick’s party and it felt like we were at a high-roller party. We had so much fun…or I did at least. Andrew was already getting a headache from the loud music at the 1^st party. But, popped some relievers and felt better. I just LOVE my hubby. He truly cares about me and knows how much I love my family and visiting with them. He has already made several sacrifices since I really pull him out of his shell :) He was the one that actually volunteered to party until 3am with my cousin! Our night ended young and fun then we got up at 8am to eat breakfast with my Uncles and the family at their rental house. And boy does my Uncle make some mean, organic veggie scrambled eggs and turkey bacon!

Open Happiness – World of Coke

Do you know how to enjoy the fulfillment of the taste of Coke – drink at 36 degrees F. We toured the World of Coke on our last rainy day after the big breakfast and our favorite was the 4-D movie! Andrew had to mention an important fact…that humans can’t see 4-D. So he asked what’s the difference between 3-D and 4-D – moving seats! The movie was incredible! It reminded me of the time my family and I went to see a Bug’s Life in 4-D at Disney World…where they create illusions and senses. I’m talking wind blowing, water splashes, bugs poking, and bees flying! The one at the World of Coke…had the same effects! We felt like kids laughing so hard and screaming at the back pokes and critters crawling under your legs! The tours itself was really interesting, especially seeing and learning the history behind Coca-Cola. Coke was developed in 1886 by a Pharmacist, John S. Pemberton. It’s just his syrup formula and soda water! If you like Coke…this place is a must to visit!

The original American Idol couch from 2005.

After tasting all 64 flavors of Coke...he got Coke drunk!

My cousin's wife, Meagan, warned us about Beverly...GROTTY. Worst than I expected!

We’re hoping to come back to Atlanta again to visit with Nick and Brenna! I had planned on doing another triathlon in Atlanta next summer, the Iron Girl. Definitely looking forward to coming back for some more fun in Atlanta!

Paradise on the Gulf Coast

2009-09-15T20:11:00.014-05:00

September is another busy month much like our May...gone every weekend after the big Carolina wedding through mid-October. Labor Day weekend on the Gulf, wedding weekend in Louisville, wedding weekend in Atlanta, revisit the 2-day Honeymoon in Nashville for our 1-year, hanging with the Bohanons in Paducah, Nashville with my Aunt and Uncle, 10-year High School reunion in Brandenburg, and counting the days to visit our companions (the Montoyas) in Howdy-Doo Texas! In the midst, Andrew is also squeezing in another office visit in Nashville as well as (possibly and hopefully) another Titans game! Memphis is a GREAT central location for traveling, exploring, and attend BIG events…especially sporting events!

Last weekend was not so good for me…all summer I have been looking forward to my college roommate’s wedding, Erika and Matthew. We drove 6 hours and managed to accidentally miss her wedding and reception!! I have never felt so terrible about an irresponsible mistake (thought it was at 6p but was at 1p). It really ruined my weekend and I apologize to my family and friends if I wasn’t myself. Needless to say, it carried over to the Monday blues. I will be back up to visit her, take her out to eat, and give her another wedding gift. The feeling is much like being responsible for losing a championship game! Like you want to turn the clocks back and change one little play to win the game.

On a lighter note…Andrew and I returned to paradise on the Gulf Coast again this past Labor Day Holiday. It’s truly like a remote, paradise island and I recently discovered it’s Santa Rosa Island after I thought it was Navarre Beach all these years (Navarre is at the very end of the island)! It’s shortly past Pensacola Beach, FL and the last building before the secluded beach is Portofino Resort – then you hit a road traveling through white sand dunes with blue-green waters on both sides. The best of the year to go…is the end of the summer where the water is literally, crystal clear. However, storms stirring in the Gulf can often bring groups of jelly fish and other aggravating sea creatures. We always see something swimming by. One summer, I happened to step on sting ray that was buried on the ocean floor and didn’t know until it swam away while I was still on his back!! Another summer, we saw a 4-foot shark swim right past us and this time we saw playful dolphins doing some summersaults, 2 sea turtles, baby swordfish, jellyfish, and baby sharks that just wouldn’t stop nibbling at my legs – UGH!! Clear water is beautiful but seeing too much can also hinder us jumping in freely. I’m the type of person that prefers NOT knowing.

We may not have time or the money to explore paradise outside the U.S. just yet. In the meantime, we have found tranquility that is close enough to escape for long weekends, all within driving distance – The Dills!

There are many other areas around Santa Rosa Island that have the beautiful paradise, picturesque - Pensacola, Destin, and Ft. Walton .

Here a sea turtle coming up for air.

And the baby sharks nibbling at my legs...making me feel so uncomfortable especially not knowing where their mother is!

A little wind trouble...

After a while...Andrew gave up and proceeded on with eating his apple.

A storm heading in made the colors so beautiful!

Practicing defense ;-)

Bullseye shooter...

Sexy hubby...just trying to protect me ;-)

We tore up this target (or should I say...they tore up the target)!

On our way back out on Hwy 59...we always stop at Burris Farmer's Market to stock up on some fresh, delicious, and..."new" produce...

We bought a coconut since it was so cheap and wanted to try it out even though we didn't know what to do with it. We tried a knife, hammer/nail, and electric drill just to drain the juice. Finally, I said...let's literally crack it open!

Lots of hissing and juice just poured out. But the taste...Eeck...salty! Not what we were expecting!

Keep your name, hyphenate, or take your husband’s…

2009-09-03T09:57:00.005-05:00

The struggle and nightmare of changing my name was revisited when at the Post Office a few days ago, I was asked, “Would you like to renew your passport?” all while I’m only there to mail off my school applications and get some stamps. “Sure, that would be great since I got married and changed my name. What do I need to do?” She hands me the forms and they just need to be completed and returned before your one year…Oh, by the way, you’ll need your marriage certificate. Okay, I have several copies at home. Nope, not good enough…they need my “official” marriage certificate! Sure, let me run to my lock box in Kentucky and hand it over. In addition, I’m wondering how many “official” copies do I need to have on file or carry around?!

During the year and a half of being engaged, I struggled with changing my name (and pondered on whether to stick with my last name for a long while). How could I go from the Old Rugged Cross to a Dill Pickle?! Plus, women have to go through so much more trouble with documents, even months and years, down the road! I have to have my "official" marriage certificate for nearly everything I do with my ID! Then, I thought about hyphenating (came close to writing it out on my new SS card), but many people told me that's ridiculous. In fact, I hear people make fun of hyphenators quite often...my name at work IS hyphenated (long story) and does seem to be annoying at times and my maiden name is still on my work email address due to the long wait process of my name being changed (I was still a Cross legally until my SS card was changed). Anyhow...it's a research thing and a personal identity thing. For me, it’s more of an identity issue since I only have one published research article…that's who we are and how we've always been known! That's my family name!

At the Social Security Administration building in a shady area here in Memphis last fall, I was my typical, happy, independent, fearless, self, until…I was yelled at in the parking lot for not parking at the appropriate business location and pretty much didn’t listen to my question of “where to park”, yelled at in the building for letting a stranger borrow my cell phone, and basically had the alienated, minority feeling like “are you stupid?” I was the only white person in the building and even in the area…but it didn’t bother me one bit, plus, I don’t see colors – we’re all humans. I get to the window just to find out I needed more documents with me to change my name on my SS card…felt like I just wasted my time! FYI, newly-married ladies...original marriage certificate for new SS card, marriage certificate + new SS card for driver's license (still haven't changed mine!), and original marriage certificate for new passport (must match new driver's license!). So, my first week as a newly-wed in Memphis…was bombed! At least I was prepared the 2nd time back, but was taking forever at the window until the agent says, “so what you do want your name to be” in a rude, impatient tone. I scratched out my name a couple times and finally left it at Tiffany Cross Dill! There you go sir…I’m Tiffany Cross Dill!

Ironically, I’ve been hearing stuff lately on the news, how they (not sure who "they" implies to - I think a survey was done) think it should be mandated that a woman takes her husband's last name..."mandated"...hmm, I guess I can see the logic behind it all such as when kids come along, plus, a man and woman leave their mother and father to become one…so it makes sense. But isn’t “mandating” a little extreme?! There are some reasons why you shouldn't hyphenate...click here to see!! Reminds me of the good ‘ole Jay Leno newspaper clippings…too funny! Of course, I didn't get it at first...I was looking too much into it :) I was literally looking for number of reasons to validate my decision.

Needless to say...I'm not against nor would I make fun of those who don’t change their name, become hyphenators, or if they choose their husbands name. I can certainly understand the struggle.

I guess now, I'm glad I stuck with one tradition (since I seem to want to do everything un-traditionally), and that is…make myself a Dill. I still refer myself to, Tiffany Cross Dill and Andrew often asks, “When are you just going to be Dill?” I don’t know…maybe in a few years. He has finally agreed, though, that we do go through a lot of trouble. After all, I guess it's worth the trouble...I AM proud of my hubby and to be his juicy pickle :)

One of the few scavenger hunts on the island.

Cheap date: make your own neighborhood scavenger hunt. Our neighborhood is full of unique and cool homes, so we searched for the best Charleston-looking home, most modern, best view, ugliest, etc.

One of our AWESOME date nights at a fine Italian restaurant, Spindini, after a full triathlon workout!
Cheap date: Andrew has found great deals on restaurant gift cards online to some great dining...for Memphis gift cards, click here. He will find $50 gift cards for $12!! Or you can search Restaurants online for discounted gift cards throughout the U.S.

No matter if we have a good/bad day, easy/tough day, or just simply bored and out of it...we always find ways to spice it up with love, laughter, and adventures.